I've come to the point...

Genna · Jan 26th, 2009, 12:47 PM

This is going to sound SO bad... please lord don't anyone take this wrong.

I have come to the point now, where if they tell me at my scan, feb. 10th that I'm having a girl....I will just cry. I want a boy SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SOOOOOOOOO BAD! I love little girls, but all I have been around for the past SEVEN years are little girls!! UGH. I just don't think I can take another one..

With my luck, It'll be a girl, ooohh dear.

P.s.

If it IS a girl, she won't be any less loved and I would be thrilled to have a daughter, it's just... I've been looking after my 4 nieces (the youngest is 11 months, the oldest is 7 years) since they were born

and I babysit my almost 5 year old step niece every day except fridays... dear lord she is a handful!... and I'm a bit girl worn out... no...more...pink, please?

leighbaby · Jan 26th, 2009, 12:52 PM

You could dress yours in yellow? and I reckon she (if it is a she!) will be way different to your nieces - nothing you'd ever expect - thats the fun!! It is really hard not to get wound up about the sex - I had spent everything other day changing my mind about what I wanted more!! I've told OH that we are going to keep going until we have at least one of each

Jkelmum · Jan 26th, 2009, 12:54 PM

Lol bless you ...your little baby will be adorable whatever and i bet he/she will be able to wrap u around there little finger lol

Rach276 · Jan 26th, 2009, 12:59 PM

I really wanted a boy and thats what im having

Wouldnt have mattered ethier way tho tbh

Missy85 · Jan 26th, 2009, 13:04 PM

AWWW I know what you mean about having just girls as in our family its loads of boys hehe so it would be nice to have a girl to even it out lol but I think when you find out and buy that first outfit youll forget about how you feel now x

starryeye31 · Jan 26th, 2009, 13:10 PM

lol , I felt the same way hun , I had 4 girls in a row , and this time we finally got our boy , it was such a big surprise ,I cried happy tears after seeing a weenie on the scan. good luck hun

Emsy26 · Jan 26th, 2009, 13:14 PM

Theres loads of girls in my family, but I wanted a girl this time for my daughter to have a sister, but she is really loud, my boys are really calm, so for me to be having a boy suits me to the ground.
Just gonna have to dress my daughter in frilly dresses, which she won't like as she's a bit of a tomboy! xox

SareBear · Jan 26th, 2009, 13:31 PM

LOL, I cried when i found out I was having a boy. It's our first and I think upi until the sexing scan I had a life planned out for either sex. Finding out one way or the other meant I had to say boodbye to one of those imaginary lives, so I grieved a little for the little girl I wasn't having.

we could still swap if it is a girl te he he x x x

kiki · Jan 26th, 2009, 13:39 PM

Dont beat yourself up hon, you know you will love a wee girl just as much as a boy. However, I do know what you mean, as I am secretly hoping for a girl. I already have a daughter and I get really fed up of everyone telling me 'you'll be wanting a boy this time then'. No, I dont, I want either as long as my baby is healthy, but I'd rather have a girl if I have the choice.

But,like you,I will love my baby, boy or girl.

Dukechick · Jan 26th, 2009, 13:49 PM

Awwwww......

I'd be lying if I told you not to think about it until you go for the scan, but I know that's not gonna happen. I kinda secretly want a girl, and may be dissapointed if that's not what it is this Wed, but I know I will love our little one regardless!!! If you DO end up having a girl, once you get to know her, you're going to be so glad that she is the way she is because you'll have so much love for her.

I'm sending you some blue dust! Good luck!

xx

Jan 26th, 2009, 12:47 PM	#1
Genna Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 1,696	I've come to the point... This is going to sound SO bad... please lord don't anyone take this wrong. I have come to the point now, where if they tell me at my scan, feb. 10th that I'm having a girl....I will just cry. I want a boy SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SOOOOOOOOO BAD! I love little girls, but all I have been around for the past SEVEN years are little girls!! UGH. I just don't think I can take another one.. With my luck, It'll be a girl, ooohh dear. P.s. If it IS a girl, she won't be any less loved and I would be thrilled to have a daughter, it's just... I've been looking after my 4 nieces (the youngest is 11 months, the oldest is 7 years) since they were born and I babysit my almost 5 year old step niece every day except fridays... dear lord she is a handful!... and I'm a bit girl worn out... no...more...pink, please?

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 12:52 PM	#2
leighbaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,297	You could dress yours in yellow? and I reckon she (if it is a she!) will be way different to your nieces - nothing you'd ever expect - thats the fun!! It is really hard not to get wound up about the sex - I had spent everything other day changing my mind about what I wanted more!! I've told OH that we are going to keep going until we have at least one of each

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 12:54 PM	#3
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	Lol bless you ...your little baby will be adorable whatever and i bet he/she will be able to wrap u around there little finger lol

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 12:59 PM	#4
Rach276 AutoSignup (SAAB) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 3,081	I really wanted a boy and thats what im having Wouldnt have mattered ethier way tho tbh

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 13:04 PM	#5
Missy85 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Merseyside, UK Posts: 2,003	AWWW I know what you mean about having just girls as in our family its loads of boys hehe so it would be nice to have a girl to even it out lol but I think when you find out and buy that first outfit youll forget about how you feel now x

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 13:10 PM	#6
starryeye31 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 2,232	lol , I felt the same way hun , I had 4 girls in a row , and this time we finally got our boy , it was such a big surprise ,I cried happy tears after seeing a weenie on the scan. good luck hun

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 13:14 PM	#7
Emsy26 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: West Mids Posts: 2,638	Theres loads of girls in my family, but I wanted a girl this time for my daughter to have a sister, but she is really loud, my boys are really calm, so for me to be having a boy suits me to the ground. Just gonna have to dress my daughter in frilly dresses, which she won't like as she's a bit of a tomboy! xox

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 13:31 PM	#8
SareBear Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Derby, England Posts: 506	LOL, I cried when i found out I was having a boy. It's our first and I think upi until the sexing scan I had a life planned out for either sex. Finding out one way or the other meant I had to say boodbye to one of those imaginary lives, so I grieved a little for the little girl I wasn't having. we could still swap if it is a girl te he he x x x

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 13:39 PM	#9
kiki Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Edinburgh Posts: 2,173	Dont beat yourself up hon, you know you will love a wee girl just as much as a boy. However, I do know what you mean, as I am secretly hoping for a girl. I already have a daughter and I get really fed up of everyone telling me 'you'll be wanting a boy this time then'. No, I dont, I want either as long as my baby is healthy, but I'd rather have a girl if I have the choice. But,like you,I will love my baby, boy or girl.

Status: Offline

Jan 26th, 2009, 13:49 PM	#10
Dukechick Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 4,758	Awwwww...... I'd be lying if I told you not to think about it until you go for the scan, but I know that's not gonna happen. I kinda secretly want a girl, and may be dissapointed if that's not what it is this Wed, but I know I will love our little one regardless!!! If you DO end up having a girl, once you get to know her, you're going to be so glad that she is the way she is because you'll have so much love for her. I'm sending you some blue dust! Good luck! xx

Status: Offline

Similar Threads
Over-emotional to the point where you just want to slap yourself?	Teen Pregnancy
Do you ever get to the point where you want to run away and hide?	Baby Club
I've already reached the point	Pregnancy - Third Trimester
I've come to the conclusion	Pregnancy - First Trimester
I've come to the conclusion	Pregnancy - Third Trimester

User Name		Remember Me?
Password