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cs22 · Jan 10th, 2009, 13:50 PM

I quit work recently early december due to problems there. but even tho i left they rang yesterday to ask me back out of the blue. i never asked for job back. torn on what to do. they offering me my full maternity rights, pay when i need them even tho im only 15w 1day and wont need them for a while yet. stuck on what to do. should i take up the offer and go back or just stay away. Any opinions to help me decide. really stuck

viejita · Jan 10th, 2009, 13:56 PM

It depends on what type of problems there were - if they are still there and nothing has changed then you'd only be getting yourself into the same thing as before and you may hate it. If however things have changed, the money I'm sure will come in handy, as will how it looks on your CV.

Of course, another element is how do you feel in yourself? Are you physically feeling OK and good enough to go to work?

Not an easy one

cs22 · Jan 10th, 2009, 14:02 PM

thanks viejita. i think if i went back i could handle the problems but its wether anything would have changed if i did go back. It was attitudes that were the problem.

viejita · Jan 10th, 2009, 14:05 PM

If those attitudes stress you out and get on your nerves and you don't need the money then stay at home and stay stress free - prolonged stress isn't good for you or baby.

cs22 · Jan 10th, 2009, 14:08 PM

the attitudes came when i told them i was preg. sad really isnt it how u see people change like that.

penguin77 · Jan 10th, 2009, 14:10 PM

You could always give it a go.....if it's still the same as before...quit.
At least then you have no regrets if you try that one last time. It might be worth one last chance just for the maternity pay.

xxxxx

cs22 · Jan 10th, 2009, 14:13 PM

I think ill give it a go and see how it pans out. If nothing has changed ill just quit again. least then i would have tried. Money would be handy. thanks

Jan 10th, 2009, 13:50 PM	#1
cs22 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 1,322	Work I quit work recently early december due to problems there. but even tho i left they rang yesterday to ask me back out of the blue. i never asked for job back. torn on what to do. they offering me my full maternity rights, pay when i need them even tho im only 15w 1day and wont need them for a while yet. stuck on what to do. should i take up the offer and go back or just stay away. Any opinions to help me decide. really stuck

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Jan 10th, 2009, 13:56 PM	#2
viejita Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 350	It depends on what type of problems there were - if they are still there and nothing has changed then you'd only be getting yourself into the same thing as before and you may hate it. If however things have changed, the money I'm sure will come in handy, as will how it looks on your CV. Of course, another element is how do you feel in yourself? Are you physically feeling OK and good enough to go to work? Not an easy one

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Jan 10th, 2009, 14:02 PM	#3
cs22 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 1,322	thanks viejita. i think if i went back i could handle the problems but its wether anything would have changed if i did go back. It was attitudes that were the problem.

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Jan 10th, 2009, 14:05 PM	#4
viejita Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 350	If those attitudes stress you out and get on your nerves and you don't need the money then stay at home and stay stress free - prolonged stress isn't good for you or baby.

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Jan 10th, 2009, 14:08 PM	#5
cs22 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 1,322	the attitudes came when i told them i was preg. sad really isnt it how u see people change like that.

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penguin77 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: North Wales Posts: 2,101	You could always give it a go.....if it's still the same as before...quit. At least then you have no regrets if you try that one last time. It might be worth one last chance just for the maternity pay. xxxxx

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Jan 10th, 2009, 14:13 PM	#7
cs22 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 1,322	I think ill give it a go and see how it pans out. If nothing has changed ill just quit again. least then i would have tried. Money would be handy. thanks

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