Dont Believe It

emzlouize · Jan 8th, 2009, 09:51 AM

as some of you may know i went for blood tests last night to check for Obstetric Cholestasis as i was having itching. the doc took my bloods and did doppler etc. i was in there from 8pm til 12 am

i have jst rang for my results and they have confiremed that i have got it

i feel like i have let these babies down so much i cannot believe that something else can go wrong what have i done to deserve this atall???

they want me to go in tmoz for medication wich i wil be on til they are born and i have to have a ecg scan
she said i now have to go to that diffrent part of hospital EVERY week for blood tests and ecg scans aswell as my other scans

WHY ME??????????? IM SO PISSED OFF

ALL THIS AFTER THE DOCTOR LAST NIGHT TELLIN ME SHE DUSNT THINK I HAVE IT

bethyb · Jan 8th, 2009, 09:57 AM

Oh honey,
You havent let them down, your fighting things the way they are.
Im sorry your having such a rough time and having all these worries but its so going to be worth it!
Big Hugs xxx

xXHXx · Jan 8th, 2009, 09:57 AM

Hey Emz,

Sorry to hear about all that, but you shouldnt blame yourself, easier said then done I know. I had some bleeding early on in my pregnancy I felt like I had done something wrong or I didnt deserve my baby, I also felt like I had let my partner down, but over time I came to realise that pregnancy is hard, probably the hardest thing I have gone through yet. And things will happen no matter how hard we try to avoid them. Please dont blame yourself hun

Take care

Haylz xx

pookies24feb09 · Jan 8th, 2009, 09:57 AM

Oh hun! You've not let your babies down at all... Imagine what might have happened if you didnt get it seen to! I'm sure the dr's will keep on top of it to make sure you and the babies are ok! Sending you and the LO's loads of

xXHXx · Jan 8th, 2009, 09:58 AM

P.S: I agree with Bethy, it will be worth it in the end =D

happy mum · Jan 8th, 2009, 10:01 AM

O emz you poor girl, it really doesn't seem fair you have so much to deal with.
I have a friend who had this and had her little girl a couple weeks early but she is absoluptly fine, try not to worry!, and by the way it certainly has nothing to do anything you have done X
HUGS!! XX

ClaireyF · Jan 8th, 2009, 10:04 AM

o hun

you haven't let your boys down! at least the docs are looking after you and giving you the best care xx

danapeter36 · Jan 8th, 2009, 10:28 AM

Hun you are doing really well with everything life keeps throwing at you. You are such a strong woman so your boys are so lucky to have you. I am sure the doctors will take great care of you. D xxx

viejita · Jan 8th, 2009, 10:48 AM

It is totally not your fault. It sounds like you're getting good care too. Try not to worry

ajarvis · Jan 8th, 2009, 10:50 AM

I agree with all the other ladies. It's not your fault! You've been making sure to get the proper care to take care of them and thats what matters!!

Jan 8th, 2009, 09:51 AM	#1
emzlouize Press/Research Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Merseyside Posts: 2,381	Dont Believe It as some of you may know i went for blood tests last night to check for Obstetric Cholestasis as i was having itching. the doc took my bloods and did doppler etc. i was in there from 8pm til 12 am i have jst rang for my results and they have confiremed that i have got it i feel like i have let these babies down so much i cannot believe that something else can go wrong what have i done to deserve this atall??? they want me to go in tmoz for medication wich i wil be on til they are born and i have to have a ecg scan she said i now have to go to that diffrent part of hospital EVERY week for blood tests and ecg scans aswell as my other scans WHY ME??????????? IM SO PISSED OFF ALL THIS AFTER THE DOCTOR LAST NIGHT TELLIN ME SHE DUSNT THINK I HAVE IT

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Jan 8th, 2009, 09:57 AM	#2
bethyb Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Wales Posts: 2,773	Oh honey, You havent let them down, your fighting things the way they are. Im sorry your having such a rough time and having all these worries but its so going to be worth it! Big Hugs xxx

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Jan 8th, 2009, 09:57 AM	#3
xXHXx Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: West Midlands Posts: 23	Hey Emz, Sorry to hear about all that, but you shouldnt blame yourself, easier said then done I know. I had some bleeding early on in my pregnancy I felt like I had done something wrong or I didnt deserve my baby, I also felt like I had let my partner down, but over time I came to realise that pregnancy is hard, probably the hardest thing I have gone through yet. And things will happen no matter how hard we try to avoid them. Please dont blame yourself hun Take care Haylz xx

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Jan 8th, 2009, 09:57 AM	#4
pookies24feb09 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: South Wales, UK Posts: 1,267	Oh hun! You've not let your babies down at all... Imagine what might have happened if you didnt get it seen to! I'm sure the dr's will keep on top of it to make sure you and the babies are ok! Sending you and the LO's loads of

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Jan 8th, 2009, 09:58 AM	#5
xXHXx Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: West Midlands Posts: 23	P.S: I agree with Bethy, it will be worth it in the end =D

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Jan 8th, 2009, 10:01 AM	#6
happy mum Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,601	O emz you poor girl, it really doesn't seem fair you have so much to deal with. I have a friend who had this and had her little girl a couple weeks early but she is absoluptly fine, try not to worry!, and by the way it certainly has nothing to do anything you have done X HUGS!! XX

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Jan 8th, 2009, 10:04 AM	#7
ClaireyF Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Holywell, N. Wales Posts: 9,502	o hun you haven't let your boys down! at least the docs are looking after you and giving you the best care xx

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Jan 8th, 2009, 10:28 AM	#8
danapeter36 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Oxfordshire, UK Posts: 5,282	Hun you are doing really well with everything life keeps throwing at you. You are such a strong woman so your boys are so lucky to have you. I am sure the doctors will take great care of you. D xxx

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Jan 8th, 2009, 10:48 AM	#9
viejita Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 350	It is totally not your fault. It sounds like you're getting good care too. Try not to worry

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Jan 8th, 2009, 10:50 AM	#10
ajarvis Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Calgary Posts: 2,301	I agree with all the other ladies. It's not your fault! You've been making sure to get the proper care to take care of them and thats what matters!!

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