How would you react?

ajarvis · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:12 AM

If your significant other told you you were "acting like a cu nt"
how would you take that?

**Arcanegirl** · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:18 AM

Id say tough shit, you know i cant help acting the way i do and maybe you should be more understanding.

codex · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:23 AM

I wouldn't be with anyone who talked to me like that....that's just my honest opinion. If a man can not keep words like that to himself especially to a pregnant woman then he is not worth my time.

edit: I forgot to say that is one word that I just hate hate hate. I find it so vulgar

penguin77 · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:24 AM

I'd be very very upset and hurt..........it would be so inconsiderate and cruel.

I know myself that i can be hard work with all the changes happening to my body......hormones, weight, size etc......but we do go through a lot.....and calling someone a cu#t is nasty.

I'll be honest...it's one of the words i hate the most.

I would be clear in how i felt and would demand an apology and make sure they mean it.........if you do a lot for that person....e.g. cook, clean etc i would stop until they appreciate everything you stand for and do.

I hope your OH didnt say that...did he?

xxx

penguin77 · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:26 AM

My Oh wouldn't dream of saying it.....and am so glad he wouldn't.
We all have our momnets but that is so un called for.

xx

Jkelmum · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:28 AM

I would wanna know why he had said it before i reacted by being a bigger one then he thought i had been !

sparkswillfly · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:30 AM

I get told that all the time........ or twat! Charming isnt it.

nataliecn · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:32 AM

Uhhm.. if my OH ever called me that, he'd get KO'd so fast it isn't even funny.

AubreyK80 · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:38 AM

oh my i wouldnt react to well to that ... I would be very upset and hurt, especially by that word that i believe men should NEVER call a women that ...Never ....oh that makes me mad thinking about it .. that is the most disrespectful word to ever call a women .

tasha41 · Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:40 AM

Hmm.. I'd cuff him.. probably tell him WELL YOU GOT THIS C*NT PREGNANT, SO DEAL WITH IT!

Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:12 AM	#1
ajarvis Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Calgary Posts: 2,301	How would you react? If your significant other told you you were "acting like a cu nt" how would you take that?

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:18 AM	#2
Arcanegirl Pregnant (Expecting) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Glasgow Posts: 25,663	Id say tough shit, you know i cant help acting the way i do and maybe you should be more understanding.

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:23 AM	#3
codex Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ontario Posts: 1,159	I wouldn't be with anyone who talked to me like that....that's just my honest opinion. If a man can not keep words like that to himself especially to a pregnant woman then he is not worth my time. edit: I forgot to say that is one word that I just hate hate hate. I find it so vulgar

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:24 AM	#4
penguin77 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: North Wales Posts: 2,101	I'd be very very upset and hurt..........it would be so inconsiderate and cruel. I know myself that i can be hard work with all the changes happening to my body......hormones, weight, size etc......but we do go through a lot.....and calling someone a cu#t is nasty. I'll be honest...it's one of the words i hate the most. I would be clear in how i felt and would demand an apology and make sure they mean it.........if you do a lot for that person....e.g. cook, clean etc i would stop until they appreciate everything you stand for and do. I hope your OH didnt say that...did he? xxx

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:26 AM	#5
penguin77 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: North Wales Posts: 2,101	My Oh wouldn't dream of saying it.....and am so glad he wouldn't. We all have our momnets but that is so un called for. xx

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:28 AM	#6
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,575	I would wanna know why he had said it before i reacted by being a bigger one then he thought i had been !

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:30 AM	#7
sparkswillfly Mum (Mom) Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: London Posts: 9,888	I get told that all the time........ or twat! Charming isnt it.

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:32 AM	#8
nataliecn Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 11,874	Uhhm.. if my OH ever called me that, he'd get KO'd so fast it isn't even funny.

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AubreyK80 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South Florida Posts: 2,672	oh my i wouldnt react to well to that ... I would be very upset and hurt, especially by that word that i believe men should NEVER call a women that ...Never ....oh that makes me mad thinking about it .. that is the most disrespectful word to ever call a women .

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Dec 23rd, 2008, 10:40 AM	#10
tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Hamilton, Canada Posts: 23,921	Hmm.. I'd cuff him.. probably tell him WELL YOU GOT THIS C*NT PREGNANT, SO DEAL WITH IT!

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