OH in forces?

katycam · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:10 PM

Is there anybody else with their OH in the forces?
Im really struggling as i dont see mine often and he hasnt been able to come to any scans or anything.
Just wondered if anyone else was in a similar position.

Always&4ever · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:16 PM

Yup, my OH is in the Army, its hard but it does get easier hon

Tracie87 · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:17 PM

My fellas in the forces 2 hun... i would say its easy but mine is just as crap as before... lol.. even tho my oh was always able 2 get my appointemnts off but were married

katycam · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:20 PM

im just getting really down at the moment, and i know the stress isnt good for baby bean. he goes on tour in a month and is going to miss the birth.

Tracie87 · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:28 PM

cant he get his R&R when your due date is here?

Pyrrhic · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:30 PM

Yep, mine is RAF and was based away from January-October so missed the majority of my pregnancy and scans. He did come back some weekends though.

katycam · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tracie87

cant he get his R&R when your due date is here?

he says he doesnt get a choice.

MarshMellow · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:47 PM

He can ask one of the lads to switch with hun huni. My hubby is Army and the other lads are usualy really good because the understand its not a tiny thing hes wanting to change it for ts the birth of his child x

godivalocks · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:55 PM

Mine is, and he is going to be gone all next year. I've been

my eyes out lately.

This is my first and it is hard for me to deal with. He is going to try and make it for the birth, but if it's early or an emergency/problem comes up, he could easily miss it.

katycam · Dec 10th, 2008, 15:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MarshMellow

He can ask one of the lads to switch with hun huni. My hubby is Army and the other lads are usualy really good because the understand its not a tiny thing hes wanting to change it for ts the birth of his child x

to be honest im not sure if he cares. he doesnt let me have anything to do with the army side of his life. he wont let me go out to germany once we are married. he wont let me meet his mates.

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katycam Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Southampton UK Posts: 2,281	OH in forces? Is there anybody else with their OH in the forces? Im really struggling as i dont see mine often and he hasnt been able to come to any scans or anything. Just wondered if anyone else was in a similar position.

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Always&4ever Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Stoke-on-Trent Posts: 9,507	Yup, my OH is in the Army, its hard but it does get easier hon

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Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 10,064	My fellas in the forces 2 hun... i would say its easy but mine is just as crap as before... lol.. even tho my oh was always able 2 get my appointemnts off but were married

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katycam Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Southampton UK Posts: 2,281	im just getting really down at the moment, and i know the stress isnt good for baby bean. he goes on tour in a month and is going to miss the birth.

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Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 10,064	cant he get his R&R when your due date is here?

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Pyrrhic Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,567	Yep, mine is RAF and was based away from January-October so missed the majority of my pregnancy and scans. He did come back some weekends though.

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MarshMellow Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: UK Sandhurst Posts: 555	He can ask one of the lads to switch with hun huni. My hubby is Army and the other lads are usualy really good because the understand its not a tiny thing hes wanting to change it for ts the birth of his child x

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Dec 10th, 2008, 15:55 PM	#9
godivalocks Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: In front of my computer Posts: 893	Mine is, and he is going to be gone all next year. I've been my eyes out lately. This is my first and it is hard for me to deal with. He is going to try and make it for the birth, but if it's early or an emergency/problem comes up, he could easily miss it.

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