Anger issue or hormones???!!!!!

Smiler · Dec 4th, 2008, 03:22 AM

I'm not quite sure if I have now developed an anger problem, or if it is my hormones taking on a different level (other than just crying at the most irrelevant things!)

On the way to work this morning i had to post some letters. I asked OH if we could stop at the post box on the way to work. The post box came into sight and OH 'appeared' to be accelerating towards the end of the road rather than slowing down to stop at the box. Normally it wouldn't have bothered me, but not today. I found myself irrationally shouting "The Post Box!" and him looking blankly at me telling me he was stopping!! i hate myself when something like this happens but can't help but almost sulk about it now! Managed to save the tears though, may use them later!!

Does anyone elses hormones fluctuate between irrational emotional behaviour and anger????? Please tell me they do and its not just me

Cariad_bach · Dec 4th, 2008, 04:40 AM

Lol hun your poor OH.....and Mine!

You not the only one, im giving mine hell at the mo bless him....i cant take my little rages out on the kids so i save it all up for him.

The way i see it....we have to carry the child, suffer the MS and tiredness, give birth.....this is my way of sharing the whole experience with him

Smiler · Dec 4th, 2008, 05:14 AM

I like your thinking. They get the best bits of it, so only fair they share the downsides as well!!! Will tell him that when he reminds me of my morning outburst

emzlouize · Dec 4th, 2008, 05:22 AM

scott is always teliing me not to bite his ed off i cant help it haha, i stormed off out of the same room as my mum the other day coz she wudnt go and put her glasses on to look at something i wanted to show her! slammed the doors and everything lmfao

lolly101 · Dec 4th, 2008, 09:28 AM

I am the same!! Hubby says he even prefers PMS cos it only lasts a week at a time!!!

princess_vix · Dec 4th, 2008, 09:33 AM

i really have lost it with my hormones!

the other day i was sat at the dinner table with my parents and 2 younger sisters and they were being quite loud and it felt like they were shouting in my head and i got up with my plate and turned around and shouted

'Ican't take this anymore'

and burst into tears and ran upstairs and cried my heart out.

My younger sisters thought it was hilarious...i was actually mortified!

Angel2Fire · Dec 4th, 2008, 17:38 PM

I'm exactly the same, I get irritable/ shout and treat people like they're stupid for no reason. But I have got slightly better since me and OH were watching a tv show (Dexter) and there's a pregnant woman in it. I saw the way she acted and said to OH "Am I that bad." He replied yes and since then I've been trying to calm down a bit

Laura--x · Dec 4th, 2008, 18:36 PM

Im terrible !!! Noone seems to understand with me though

Like the other day we were setting up our crib, and i set to mum baby goes this end (feet at the bottom of the crib) and she started saying ' what so you just fling the baby at the bottom of the cot then, look at all that room left!!' and i was like yes mum you do if you put them up the top they can wriggle down under the blankets and suffocate, she was like dont be bloody silly and i screamed, told her she knows nothing and went upstairs lol!!

chel27 · Dec 4th, 2008, 18:39 PM

lol my hormones have been going crazy ever since i got pregnant, which is bad news for my son and OH as they always get the earfull, and normally for no apparent reason!! thing is when i scream at my OH he will retaliate which makes me even worse lol hes not really the sympathetic type lol xx

Janisdkh · Dec 4th, 2008, 18:44 PM

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Originally Posted by chel27

lol my hormones have been going crazy ever since i got pregnant, which is bad news for my son and OH as they always get the earfull, and normally for no apparent reason!! thing is when i scream at my OH he will retaliate which makes me even worse lol hes not really the sympathetic type lol xx

Mmm reminds me of my hubby somewhat. If I am angry or upset about something and dash out he will argue back! I am like "jesus I am pregnant and hormonal leave me alone!" he thinks it is all in our heads. Though coming from him he should know better. He battled thyroid cancer and has no thyroid now. This means no hormones at all. He needs sumpliments and he is still not on a good dosage... You would think he would understand? but nope.... He is still lovey though. After it happens and I run away and cry he will come cuddle me and say sorry.

Dec 4th, 2008, 03:22 AM	#1
Smiler Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 233	Anger issue or hormones???!!!!! I'm not quite sure if I have now developed an anger problem, or if it is my hormones taking on a different level (other than just crying at the most irrelevant things!) On the way to work this morning i had to post some letters. I asked OH if we could stop at the post box on the way to work. The post box came into sight and OH 'appeared' to be accelerating towards the end of the road rather than slowing down to stop at the box. Normally it wouldn't have bothered me, but not today. I found myself irrationally shouting "The Post Box!" and him looking blankly at me telling me he was stopping!! i hate myself when something like this happens but can't help but almost sulk about it now! Managed to save the tears though, may use them later!! Does anyone elses hormones fluctuate between irrational emotional behaviour and anger????? Please tell me they do and its not just me

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Dec 4th, 2008, 04:40 AM	#2
Cariad_bach Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: North Wales Posts: 5,652	Lol hun your poor OH.....and Mine! You not the only one, im giving mine hell at the mo bless him....i cant take my little rages out on the kids so i save it all up for him. The way i see it....we have to carry the child, suffer the MS and tiredness, give birth.....this is my way of sharing the whole experience with him

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Dec 4th, 2008, 05:14 AM	#3
Smiler Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 233	I like your thinking. They get the best bits of it, so only fair they share the downsides as well!!! Will tell him that when he reminds me of my morning outburst

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Dec 4th, 2008, 05:22 AM	#4
emzlouize Press/Research Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Merseyside Posts: 2,381	scott is always teliing me not to bite his ed off i cant help it haha, i stormed off out of the same room as my mum the other day coz she wudnt go and put her glasses on to look at something i wanted to show her! slammed the doors and everything lmfao

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Dec 4th, 2008, 09:28 AM	#5
lolly101 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: poole Dorset Posts: 2,508	I am the same!! Hubby says he even prefers PMS cos it only lasts a week at a time!!!

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Dec 4th, 2008, 09:33 AM	#6
princess_vix Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Bournemouth,UK Posts: 3,922	i really have lost it with my hormones! the other day i was sat at the dinner table with my parents and 2 younger sisters and they were being quite loud and it felt like they were shouting in my head and i got up with my plate and turned around and shouted 'Ican't take this anymore' and burst into tears and ran upstairs and cried my heart out. My younger sisters thought it was hilarious...i was actually mortified!

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Dec 4th, 2008, 17:38 PM	#7
Angel2Fire Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Derby Posts: 811	I'm exactly the same, I get irritable/ shout and treat people like they're stupid for no reason. But I have got slightly better since me and OH were watching a tv show (Dexter) and there's a pregnant woman in it. I saw the way she acted and said to OH "Am I that bad." He replied yes and since then I've been trying to calm down a bit

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Dec 4th, 2008, 18:36 PM	#8
Laura--x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: England Posts: 8,799	Im terrible !!! Noone seems to understand with me though Like the other day we were setting up our crib, and i set to mum baby goes this end (feet at the bottom of the crib) and she started saying ' what so you just fling the baby at the bottom of the cot then, look at all that room left!!' and i was like yes mum you do if you put them up the top they can wriggle down under the blankets and suffocate, she was like dont be bloody silly and i screamed, told her she knows nothing and went upstairs lol!!

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Dec 4th, 2008, 18:39 PM	#9
chel27 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 4,123	lol my hormones have been going crazy ever since i got pregnant, which is bad news for my son and OH as they always get the earfull, and normally for no apparent reason!! thing is when i scream at my OH he will retaliate which makes me even worse lol hes not really the sympathetic type lol xx

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