am i taking it too seriously

annie1 · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:35 AM

Hi girls

am i being silly ? i am 20 weeks pregnant and a teacher everybody at work seems to comment on my weight the other day i got told your huge you are or isnt your face rounding off. its made me very paranoid why do people feel the need to comment . i put on 15 pounds so far is that too much ? i eating healthily i was 8.13 now i ten stone

katieandbump · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:38 AM

What, as if!! I woulda have punched them in the face! lol
Not at all i was 8 and a half stone before pregnancy and i'm 10 stone now apparently its totaly normal to put on around a stone at this point, how far gone at you. Don't listen to these horrible ppl. (Hugs) xxx

moomin_troll · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:40 AM

thats not bad at all n u will find u will lose alot of weight from ur bump after uve had baby.

it drove me crazy that strangers aswel as ppl i no thought they had the right to make comments about my weight ect

now i get ppl sayin oh dont u look good after having ur baby! why cant they just say u look great instead of adding oh u had a baby well u look great! cheers for makin me feel like crap lol

n strangers tryin to put their stupid faces in my pram it just gets worse lol

katieandbump · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by moomin_troll

n strangers tryin to put their stupid faces in my pram it just gets worse lol

Argghhh i will hate ppl doing that to me ... although....

confession: I do it now can't help it but to have a peak at lil bub!

xxx

Leanne&Bump..x · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:48 AM

if its from the kids, they are probably doing it because they can tell you are pregnant..i dont understand why teachers used to try and keep it a secret..we werent stupid..They might just be saying it to see if you tell them you are pregnant?

Blah11 · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:48 AM

No you're fine. Don't worry. I know i've put a lot of weight on on my bum, thighs and face but my tummy is really neat. It's odd!

moomin_troll · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by katieandbump

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Originally Posted by moomin_troll

n strangers tryin to put their stupid faces in my pram it just gets worse lol

Argghhh i will hate ppl doing that to me ... although....

confession: I do it now can't help it but to have a peak at lil bub!

xxx

i dont mind pregnant women doin it but it gets me wen its old ppl who actually grab my arm to stop me n they stink hahah

the next person who does it i will scream get ur f ing face away form my baby lol

LuluBee · Nov 4th, 2008, 07:53 AM

No, try not to worry about it. For some reason people feel they have the right to comment freely on your weight when you're pregnant and don't seem to think that it might be upsetting or hurtful! I work in teaching and have to say that lovely as we can be, we also tend be rather outspoken from time to time. Try to ignore them you have the best possible reason to be carrying a little extra weight at the moment!

annie1 · Nov 4th, 2008, 11:05 AM

i feel better now. i not exacly massive 15 pounds at 20 weeks is not bad i think its really hurtful when they say i huge makes me feel like a beast !

pennysbored · Nov 4th, 2008, 11:08 AM

I had put on 18 by that point. I'm kinda freaked out, going to the doctors this morning, wondering what the damage is now.

Nov 4th, 2008, 07:35 AM	#1
annie1 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 212	am i taking it too seriously Hi girls am i being silly ? i am 20 weeks pregnant and a teacher everybody at work seems to comment on my weight the other day i got told your huge you are or isnt your face rounding off. its made me very paranoid why do people feel the need to comment . i put on 15 pounds so far is that too much ? i eating healthily i was 8.13 now i ten stone

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katieandbump Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Kidderminster Posts: 2,946	What, as if!! I woulda have punched them in the face! lol Not at all i was 8 and a half stone before pregnancy and i'm 10 stone now apparently its totaly normal to put on around a stone at this point, how far gone at you. Don't listen to these horrible ppl. (Hugs) xxx

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Nov 4th, 2008, 07:40 AM	#3
moomin_troll Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: staffordshire Posts: 14,583	thats not bad at all n u will find u will lose alot of weight from ur bump after uve had baby. it drove me crazy that strangers aswel as ppl i no thought they had the right to make comments about my weight ect now i get ppl sayin oh dont u look good after having ur baby! why cant they just say u look great instead of adding oh u had a baby well u look great! cheers for makin me feel like crap lol n strangers tryin to put their stupid faces in my pram it just gets worse lol

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Leanne&Bump..x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Newcastle, Tyne & Wear Posts: 697	if its from the kids, they are probably doing it because they can tell you are pregnant..i dont understand why teachers used to try and keep it a secret..we werent stupid..They might just be saying it to see if you tell them you are pregnant?

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Blah11 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 32,874	No you're fine. Don't worry. I know i've put a lot of weight on on my bum, thighs and face but my tummy is really neat. It's odd!

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LuluBee Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Bromsgrove Posts: 2,053	No, try not to worry about it. For some reason people feel they have the right to comment freely on your weight when you're pregnant and don't seem to think that it might be upsetting or hurtful! I work in teaching and have to say that lovely as we can be, we also tend be rather outspoken from time to time. Try to ignore them you have the best possible reason to be carrying a little extra weight at the moment!

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Nov 4th, 2008, 11:05 AM	#9
annie1 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 212	thanks i feel better now. i not exacly massive 15 pounds at 20 weeks is not bad i think its really hurtful when they say i huge makes me feel like a beast !

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pennysbored Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Vancouver BC, Canada Posts: 2,357	I had put on 18 by that point. I'm kinda freaked out, going to the doctors this morning, wondering what the damage is now.

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