does anyone eles feel alone?

Beth_18 · Oct 29th, 2008, 14:42 PM

i posted this on teen pregnancy bit...but thought id post it here 2.

i feel so alone at the min my mum n dad have been brill but i feel like my oh has relised he is going to have to settle down and i think that scares him as now he is starting to going out all the time and making exuses to see me. what makes it worse that im not working no more as i have sciatica, so im not going out very much as i find it hard 2 walk far. i feel like my oh doesnt want to know anymore iv tryed so hard with him and i love him to bits its just when i get a bit snappy insted of being understanding he will turn it round in to one big argument. he hasnt really been involed from the start hes came to the scans thats it. he didnt come with me to pick our push chair as he finds mothercare boring! he hasnt given me any money for the baby and he hasnt got anythink apart from a set of botties. when im feeling abit upset all i want is a cuddle but he just doesnt seem to want to know.

i sound like a right winger now

fulltimemum · Oct 29th, 2008, 14:46 PM

firstly hugs hun i no how you feel had same proplem with my sons dad all i no is you will be a fab mum and if you want a cuddle here you go hun

theres lots for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx if you eva want to chat p.m me and il give you my msn addy

NatalieW · Oct 29th, 2008, 14:47 PM

Beth, have you tried to actually talk to him about the way you feel?

fulltimemum · Oct 29th, 2008, 14:48 PM

thats what i shud of asked hun have you tryed to sit him down and tell him xxxxxxxxxxx

Beth_18 · Oct 29th, 2008, 14:56 PM

i have tryed to but i end up geting very tearfull and he says its all an act to make him feel sorry for me. he wont talk to me he just says forget and if i keep going on at him he walks out.

fulltimemum · Oct 29th, 2008, 14:57 PM

beth i added you to msn huni xxx

how long have you ben togetha xxxxxxxx

NatalieW · Oct 29th, 2008, 15:00 PM

How old are you and him?

My advice would be to let him be like this for now, and see what he is like when the baby is born. He might change then. He could be feeling like he doesn't want his life to change but having a little part of him being born he might change. I know its really hard to not have the support of your boyfriend but you do have your parents who love you and their grandchild unconditionally and you have all the support here from all us girlies!!

Beth_18 · Oct 29th, 2008, 15:01 PM

thankyou i will be on later im just about to go and eat.

we have been togetha 2 n a bit years now x x x

Beth_18 · Oct 29th, 2008, 15:04 PM

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Originally Posted by NatalieW

How old are you and him?

My advice would be to let him be like this for now, and see what he is like when the baby is born. He might change then. He could be feeling like he doesn't want his life to change but having a little part of him being born he might change. I know its really hard to not have the support of your boyfriend but you do have your parents who love you and their grandchild unconditionally and you have all the support here from all us girlies!!

im 18 but will be 19 by the time the Lo is here.
i know your all lovely in here!!
yeah im just leting him do what he wants from now on

fulltimemum · Oct 29th, 2008, 15:08 PM

hun you need to be stronger with him tell him exacley how you feel he carnt just go out and about when baby is here its not fair xxxxxxxxxx ill be on msn later hun gona go wash the dishes now xxxxx

Oct 29th, 2008, 14:42 PM	#1
Beth_18 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: shropshire Posts: 1,215	does anyone eles feel alone? i posted this on teen pregnancy bit...but thought id post it here 2. i feel so alone at the min my mum n dad have been brill but i feel like my oh has relised he is going to have to settle down and i think that scares him as now he is starting to going out all the time and making exuses to see me. what makes it worse that im not working no more as i have sciatica, so im not going out very much as i find it hard 2 walk far. i feel like my oh doesnt want to know anymore iv tryed so hard with him and i love him to bits its just when i get a bit snappy insted of being understanding he will turn it round in to one big argument. he hasnt really been involed from the start hes came to the scans thats it. he didnt come with me to pick our push chair as he finds mothercare boring! he hasnt given me any money for the baby and he hasnt got anythink apart from a set of botties. when im feeling abit upset all i want is a cuddle but he just doesnt seem to want to know. i sound like a right winger now

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fulltimemum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Hartlepool Posts: 4,210	firstly hugs hun i no how you feel had same proplem with my sons dad all i no is you will be a fab mum and if you want a cuddle here you go hun theres lots for you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx if you eva want to chat p.m me and il give you my msn addy

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NatalieW Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 2,230	Beth, have you tried to actually talk to him about the way you feel?

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fulltimemum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Hartlepool Posts: 4,210	thats what i shud of asked hun have you tryed to sit him down and tell him xxxxxxxxxxx

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Beth_18 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: shropshire Posts: 1,215	i have tryed to but i end up geting very tearfull and he says its all an act to make him feel sorry for me. he wont talk to me he just says forget and if i keep going on at him he walks out.

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fulltimemum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Hartlepool Posts: 4,210	beth i added you to msn huni xxx how long have you ben togetha xxxxxxxx

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NatalieW Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 2,230	How old are you and him? My advice would be to let him be like this for now, and see what he is like when the baby is born. He might change then. He could be feeling like he doesn't want his life to change but having a little part of him being born he might change. I know its really hard to not have the support of your boyfriend but you do have your parents who love you and their grandchild unconditionally and you have all the support here from all us girlies!!

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Beth_18 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: shropshire Posts: 1,215	thankyou i will be on later im just about to go and eat. we have been togetha 2 n a bit years now x x x

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fulltimemum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Hartlepool Posts: 4,210	hun you need to be stronger with him tell him exacley how you feel he carnt just go out and about when baby is here its not fair xxxxxxxxxx ill be on msn later hun gona go wash the dishes now xxxxx

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