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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:16 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Am i wrong?
I was talking to my friend today and she mad a few comments that really pissed me off and when i told her she said she was jokin n to lighten up!
She was jokin babies dad cudnt deny the baby was his when it comes out mixed as he mixed race n i am white.
Then she said it could be a throwback and come out really dark but not to worry she loves digestive biscuits and i had a go at her!
Its one thing makin those comments but another sayin about my bloody baby, she said cos she was jokin im over reactin!
Do you think i was, or was i well within my right to have a go!? |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Sickening !!!!!! . |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:27 PM
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| I don't even get her 'joke' :\ |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:31 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I am not sure what the biscuits is about but I wouldn't be so upset about the mixed thing. DH and I always joke around about knowing it's his baby because of the mix (he is vietnamese). My son is mixed with black but looks hispanic and his son is viet/chinese and looks like he might be mine and it's always a joke amongst the adults (never in front of the kids). Again I do not know the whole story but I wouldn't be mad over that comment. |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:34 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | well within your right sweeetie!! thats horrible!!  for you! xx |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:35 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | No your not overreacting, your friend is an idiot IMO.
Your baby may come out looking really white but have real black features or vice versa.
I havent actually thought abot what colour my baby will be tbh (im black, babys dad is greek/itallian)... im not really fussed as long as shes ok! |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I would be pissed off too, she needs to keep comments like that to herself |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:44 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | um, not cool 
Did you explain to her that in order for it to be a joke, there has to be some element of humour? |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 20:57 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i told her to keep her bloody opinions to herself! and to F**k Off!
I was not impressed! |
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Oct 13th, 2008, 21:02 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | People can be such dorks about so-called "mixed" relationships and/or babies. I generally let them blather on, unless they say something unquestionably offensive, as it reflects more upon their insecurities tha it does mine. |
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