izzy29

I have suffered from a number of bleeds so far in this pregnancy. I am now 22weeks preg and found out last week the bleeding has been due to a cervial polyp which can bleed on and off the whole pregnancy. I have sort of neglected OH recently and he has been totally understanding but I am a bit scared if we do get intimate I will start to bleed again. Has never happened after it before but it has been a while, cant even remeber the last time now!! Do you think I would be safe enough for intercourse?? Wasnt told to abstain or anything

lauriech

If you haven't been told to avoid sex then I think it's up to you and how you're feeling.

Just make sure you feel confortable Sweetie x

porkpie1981

Im so with u here! I have told my oh every time when i get my next scan then we are ok to do it (die to bleeding). Then i bleed again. I arranged last nite to but fell alseep watching tv. I will do it tonight or tomorrow but im nervous

izzy29

Porkpie, I am exactly the same, I said mayhbe this weekend and now I am a bit worried. Took us 14 months to get preg so it has gone from one extreme to the other in the bedroom department so I feel a bit bad about it. Havent had any bleeding in a few days now so hopefully it stays that way

aurora32

Understand where you are coming from hunn but unless you have been told not to have im sure it will be safe to do so, as long as you are relaxed and both gentle, see how it goes if you are sore you can stop. Hope it all works out if you decide to go ahead.

nataliecn

well, i wouldn't feel guilty about it... if you and your OH were trying for 14 months to get pregnant, he realizes that it was hard to get to where you are now!! I'm sure he's just as worried as you are!!

But like some of the other girls said, if you haven't been told not to have it, I don't see why not. If you're worried about a bleed, just maybe no crazy wild BDing!! lol.

izzy29

anytime I have been at the hosp they have asked has it been post coital, which it never has been, so I am assuming it is pretty common after but would still be frightening to see red blood no matter what the circumstances. Suppose I wont know unless I try!! Still just considering it though!and OH is very understanding about it and is not making me feel under any pressure at all.

nataliecn

well, if you're not comfortable doing it, and having the possibility of some blood, i wouldn't do it.
you don't want to work yourself up over it!

izzy29

I really want to but then on the other hand, i dont, OH is the same. Might say to MW next time I am speaking to her to see what she thinks, or maybe google it!!!

aurora32

Hunn, if you are that nervous about doin it and oh is too neither of you will enjoy it, dont make decision to do or not to do, just be close and see where it gets you, the fact he understands is a big thing most guys get so bloody selfish, dont beat yourself up about it 14 months is a long time to be trying for a baby so your worry is understandable.
you can be close and intimate with each other without full