jms895

Definately!! I am waiting for all these comments, and I will tell them all to sod off. Know plenty of married people in sh*t relationships and also 30 and 40 year old mums who act like children. Age and status DO NOT MATTER

CeliaM

Ugh, that has got to be just infuriating!! Feeling for you..

beancounter

I get id'd too. I had to get a provisional driving licence because I left work and don't have any ID and couldn't buy beer or go into pubs! And people talk down to me, they talk to my husband who is the same age and equally qualified and then thier tone changes for me. So I have been debating whether I will seem olderwhen I have a bump, or if I will get this too.

I sympathise. And they shouldn't do it, no matter your age. I might get a tshirt with 'I Am 31' on it (though that would stop me getting child bus tickets, lol.). Or I might just go out and start arguments, I'm pretty feisty at the mo.

SwissMiss

My word, do people actually DO that!?!?? That has GOT to be more than annoying!!!! I would honestly just keep shouting your age at them and watch them squirm. Or have a maternity t-shirt made with your bday on the back and like "1st generation" and bubs EDD on the front with an arrow and "2nd generation" or sth like that- see what I mean? I'd be in everyone's face for sure. Ugh.

alphatee

im in the same boat ive always looked young for my age(from my photo u cant tell) i really do sympathise with u it shouldnt b done,,,it shouldnt matter what age u are xx

Ema

I hate it hunni, I look the grand old age of about 10 even tho im 21 and get asked all the time "how you going to cope???" EXCUSE ME!!! I work a really decent job, own me own house. Ok me and OH aint married but what right do you have to ask me how im going to cope.....mind your own fucking business.!!!

Ok rant over.....just these people make me so mad....!! XxX

Neecee

Now THAT really p****s me off! Especially when I'm out in my trakkies or going into any "posh" baby shops. you always get some kind of condescending look from someone!

Blah11

How rude. What does it matter even if you were a teenager? People disgust me sometimes


I'm 20 and I've actually got no rude comments thus far (except from my gran and dad when they first found out).

beancounter

urgh. I'm married but hardly ever wear a ring. People find such silly ways to be judgemental. And really, if they are thinking like that, it's them who's the bad person!

kadey

i get it. im 20 (so not that far out of my teens but still) and ppl look at me then look at my bump and then just sort of turn away as if to ' bloody hell another one ruinin her's and her babys life' it got to the point a few weeks ago i didnt even want to go down the baby ailse in tesco, and i didnt want to go to baby stores to look at things. but the OH had a talk with me and made me see sense. its not what the strangers think, everyone has their own opinions. he told me i was going to be a great mummy and i should be enjoying my bump not trying to hide it so stupid woman wont give me dirty looks.