thesockqueen

I'm a naturally highly strung person, and have been even moreso since becoming pregnant. I get very wound up very quickly and stress out majorly at the slightest things. I'm so worried that because of the amount of stress I harbour my baby will be stressed as well and hate me for it . Physically my pregnancy has been easy compared to some women's, but emotionally it's been awful from day one. I am not with the baby's father anymore (we broke up not long after I found out) and he has not made my life particularly easy. He tried to force me to have an abortion, and since I didn't he is now always changing his mind about whether he wants to be involved, lying to me etc. I have also heard some nasty rumours about him and i get so upset. It makes me feel so much hatred towards him, I'm so scared the baby will come out hating people as well and it'll be all my fault. I can hold a grudge for a very long time, and as much as I try to move on I can't because I do actually want the father to be there for his baby. It hurts so much and I just wish I could chill out

danni2609

Aww hope u start to feel better soon! Ur ex sounds like a complete idiot and he sounds like hes messing u round which isnt fair! U can do it alone i have got a couple of mates whos OHs walked out and they cope the same as i do!! As for the stress thing we all do get stressed but just try to calm down b4 u get to angry!

thesockqueen

I do try, this baby seems to be pretty lazy and doesn't really respond to mummy's tantrums lol. He/she only really kicks when I'm on my own in a quiet place and relaxed (well, more relaxed than usual). Sometimes s/he will kick for music, but not that much. Either shy or lazy methinks, I'm just praying not scared!