at what point

passengerrach · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:08 AM

hi every1 this may be a stupid question but at what point during the 20 week scan do u ask what the sex is do u ask at the begining will they ask u if u want to no its just i dont want to interrupt the person doing it while they r concentrating or sumthin

Serene123 · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:09 AM

They should say "do you want to know the sex?"

kadey · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:09 AM

ha we didnt want to know so we didnt mention it then the woman said would you like to know the sex of your baby and we just said no. i think your suppose to ask if you want to know though. id mention it at the begining
when is your scan?
xxx

o0oCharlieo0o · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:10 AM

i ask them at the end once they have done everything they have to do

nessajane · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:10 AM

I asked when she had completed all her checks as i didnt want to interept her, after they had done the checks they showed my the baby and pointed out things so i thought it was a good time to ask then!!

passengerrach · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:11 AM

thanks this is my first baby so i worry about anything and anything lol scans not till 20th oct so ages still

katieandbump · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:11 AM

yeah good question i'll prob wait till after she's done the checks cos i don't want her to forget if i ask at the start and yet i don't want to ask her twice cos i'll feel like i'm badgering her lol.

katieandbump · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:12 AM

OOOh just noticed your scan's the day before mine, seems to be alot going around then good luck. x

passengerrach · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:12 AM

yep thanks how i feel katie

Fossey · Sep 18th, 2008, 07:13 AM

I was wondering this last night. The last scan lady wasn't that ermm how can I put it... approachable. So I was wondering when i should ask... if I ask at the beginning will she be like geees yes later lol or if I wait till the end will she moan because I should have asked at the start lol

I do weigh these things up in my mind and think of the worst possible scenario!

Sep 18th, 2008, 07:08 AM	#1
passengerrach Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: stevenage Posts: 2,939	at what point hi every1 this may be a stupid question but at what point during the 20 week scan do u ask what the sex is do u ask at the begining will they ask u if u want to no its just i dont want to interrupt the person doing it while they r concentrating or sumthin

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Serene123 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 32,048	They should say "do you want to know the sex?"

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kadey Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Leeds, West Yorkshire Posts: 1,168	ha we didnt want to know so we didnt mention it then the woman said would you like to know the sex of your baby and we just said no. i think your suppose to ask if you want to know though. id mention it at the begining when is your scan? xxx

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o0oCharlieo0o Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Essex Posts: 2,867	i ask them at the end once they have done everything they have to do

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nessajane Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 7,586	I asked when she had completed all her checks as i didnt want to interept her, after they had done the checks they showed my the baby and pointed out things so i thought it was a good time to ask then!!

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Sep 18th, 2008, 07:11 AM	#6
passengerrach Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: stevenage Posts: 2,939	thanks this is my first baby so i worry about anything and anything lol scans not till 20th oct so ages still

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Sep 18th, 2008, 07:11 AM	#7
katieandbump Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Kidderminster Posts: 2,946	yeah good question i'll prob wait till after she's done the checks cos i don't want her to forget if i ask at the start and yet i don't want to ask her twice cos i'll feel like i'm badgering her lol.

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katieandbump Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Kidderminster Posts: 2,946	OOOh just noticed your scan's the day before mine, seems to be alot going around then good luck. x

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Sep 18th, 2008, 07:13 AM	#10
Fossey Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Cotswolds Posts: 2,302	I was wondering this last night. The last scan lady wasn't that ermm how can I put it... approachable. So I was wondering when i should ask... if I ask at the beginning will she be like geees yes later lol or if I wait till the end will she moan because I should have asked at the start lol I do weigh these things up in my mind and think of the worst possible scenario!

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