am i a freak?

hellotasha · Aug 19th, 2008, 17:49 PM

I'm never like this, just the past few weeks its like i need my boyfriend at my side all the time & its not fair on him because if he says hes going for a pint with friends i get angry & upset.
Tonight he has gone out as its his friends birthday & im mad at him.
Whats up with me? I'm never like this with him, i know im being unfair but i cant help it x

Pyrrhic · Aug 19th, 2008, 17:53 PM

No, you're not a freak. We have lots of hormones raging around in our bodies when we're pregnant and sometimes this can manifest is us being more clingy. I'm not the type of person who ever cries, but I have clung to my OH sometimes and sobbed, begging him not to go back to work (he works away from home).

moomin_troll · Aug 19th, 2008, 17:57 PM

im like this too before i got pregnant he went out whenever he wanted and i was fine now it starts a massive fight lol cuz i dont want him to go

hellotasha · Aug 19th, 2008, 17:58 PM

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Originally Posted by rafwife

No, you're not a freak. We have lots of hormones raging around in our bodies when we're pregnant and sometimes this can manifest is us being more clingy. I'm not the type of person who ever cries, but I have clung to my OH sometimes and sobbed, begging him not to go back to work (he works away from home).

Its crazy isnt it, must be really hard for you with him working away & heres me moaning about 1 night. I worry about him too because i know what the streets are like with guns ect, but its just me being selfish more than anything. I feel so upset im being horrible to him x

hellotasha · Aug 19th, 2008, 17:59 PM

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Originally Posted by moomin_troll

im like this too before i got pregnant he went out whenever he wanted and i was fine now it starts a massive fight lol cuz i dont want him to go

I know i know its selfish to think but in my head i think i cant go out & drink so why should he. Deep down i know thats not the way it is but thats my frame of mind. He was just like do you want me to stay in because i will u know & i said no eff off im such a cow x

Ria_Rose · Aug 19th, 2008, 18:44 PM

Yup my OH works and lives on the otherside of the country (until 6 weeks time when I go on maternity and move down to be with him), and while I accept that he has to go back and sometimes I don;t get to see him for 2 weeks - I do get upset if I don't get to talk to him properly everyday. Get very possesive if he goes out and sounds like he's having a nice time without me - even thou he rarely ever does.

Hormons, and being female

moomin_troll · Aug 19th, 2008, 23:54 PM

my OH now asks me if its ok for him to go out lol and i think its fair we cant drink so they should either cut down or stop to lol

but i realise how much of i bitch im being but cant help it lol but we spoke about it and he is now going off every tuesday to play pool so i will have to keep it shut lol

**polo_princess** · Aug 20th, 2008, 03:59 AM

Blame the hormones!!

One minute i dont like my OH to be away, the next i want him to go away so i can have some space!!

Gillian · Aug 20th, 2008, 04:28 AM

I try and encourage my o/h to go out with his mates at least once a week as I feel guilty asking him to stay in just because I want to and then I spend the night worrying myself sick until he gets back in safe. It is difficult for him to adapt as we had a very active social life up until me getting pregnant. Love the idea of having a bit of me time and then hate every minute of being in the house alone! Just can't win.xx

danni2609 · Aug 20th, 2008, 05:12 AM

Blame hormones!

Aug 19th, 2008, 17:49 PM	#1
hellotasha Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 2,554	am i a freak? I'm never like this, just the past few weeks its like i need my boyfriend at my side all the time & its not fair on him because if he says hes going for a pint with friends i get angry & upset. Tonight he has gone out as its his friends birthday & im mad at him. Whats up with me? I'm never like this with him, i know im being unfair but i cant help it x

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Aug 19th, 2008, 17:53 PM	#2
Pyrrhic Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 14,567	No, you're not a freak. We have lots of hormones raging around in our bodies when we're pregnant and sometimes this can manifest is us being more clingy. I'm not the type of person who ever cries, but I have clung to my OH sometimes and sobbed, begging him not to go back to work (he works away from home).

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Aug 19th, 2008, 17:57 PM	#3
moomin_troll Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: staffordshire Posts: 14,583	im like this too before i got pregnant he went out whenever he wanted and i was fine now it starts a massive fight lol cuz i dont want him to go

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Ria_Rose Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Swindon, UK Posts: 2,419	Yup my OH works and lives on the otherside of the country (until 6 weeks time when I go on maternity and move down to be with him), and while I accept that he has to go back and sometimes I don;t get to see him for 2 weeks - I do get upset if I don't get to talk to him properly everyday. Get very possesive if he goes out and sounds like he's having a nice time without me - even thou he rarely ever does. Hormons, and being female

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Aug 19th, 2008, 23:54 PM	#7
moomin_troll Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: staffordshire Posts: 14,583	my OH now asks me if its ok for him to go out lol and i think its fair we cant drink so they should either cut down or stop to lol but i realise how much of i bitch im being but cant help it lol but we spoke about it and he is now going off every tuesday to play pool so i will have to keep it shut lol

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Aug 20th, 2008, 03:59 AM	#8
polo_princess Mum (Mom) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hertfordshire Posts: 45,510	Blame the hormones!! One minute i dont like my OH to be away, the next i want him to go away so i can have some space!!

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Aug 20th, 2008, 04:28 AM	#9
Gillian Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Warrington Posts: 144	I try and encourage my o/h to go out with his mates at least once a week as I feel guilty asking him to stay in just because I want to and then I spend the night worrying myself sick until he gets back in safe. It is difficult for him to adapt as we had a very active social life up until me getting pregnant. Love the idea of having a bit of me time and then hate every minute of being in the house alone! Just can't win.xx

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Aug 20th, 2008, 05:12 AM	#10
danni2609 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: cornwall Posts: 6,138	Blame hormones!

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