nikky0907

Aww,hun...she'll be your little princess! Of course she will be special,she's the product of your love! Having a baby with you,the love of his life,is I'm sure more than enough for your OH.Plus,you guys are young and can have more kiddies,maybe next time a boy!

Kelliex

Ah hun don't worry, I understand how you feel but you will be excited once the shock wears off
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6lilpigs

I think this is the problem of finding out what your having. With my first I desperately wanted a boy and I got a girl. Luckily I never found out what I was having or I think I may have been disappointed for the remainder of the pregnancy. Not only was she not a boy but when she was born and they handed her to me she had a mop of long black hair and little slitty eyes. Me and my 5 siblings were born bald (for years lol) and with big blue eyes so that was what I had been expecting lol. But the second I was given this black haired little girl she was MINE and no one in the world could have taken her away from me or altered her in any way, she was perfect, and still is (but don't tell her that the lil cow lol). The mother and baby bond is the strongest bond in the world and I promise you any feelings of disappointment will pass as quickly as they came. Subsequently with my second I desperately wanted a lil girl, guess what I got? Yes a blue one lol.

biteable

I know exactly where your coming from,i was in the same boat 3wks ago.I wwas convinced i was having a girl and couldnt wait.When they told me it was a little boy,i was mortified,absolutely gutted and thats all i kept saying,i cried continiously and completely ruined the day for my o/h who was just made up we were having a healthy baby,now 3 wks later i cant wait and if the scan turns out wrong i will be equally as mortified,it does sort out hun,i felt all the things your feeling now and i now feel guilty about thinking some of the thoughts i did

Sarahkka

Rachiebaby -
I would be way more concerned if you weren't honest about having feelings like these. It is so healthy and mature to acknowledge this and hash it out, just as you're doing!
Others have already said this, so I'll just add my voice to theirs:
It sounds to me like this has a lot more to do with you feeling insecure about your place in OH's heart and priority list than about the sex of the baby. I say this because this is the second thread from you confessing a lot of distress and anxiety over him.
Maybe that's where you need to examine your feelings?
Ask yourself, what could he do to make you feel more secure? What do you need to do for yourself to lift the anxiety?
I have a feeling that addressing those things might resolve the baby and bonding worries.
Just a thought.