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Jul 17th, 2008, 07:02 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Just needed to get this off my chest... I dont know if anyone else here is having the baby as a single mother but im experiencing my pregnancy alone for the second time and i cant help but to feel upset.
Both of my children are from the same sperm donor and i shouldve known better considering he left me in my first pregnancy. He came back when my daughter was born and we tried to make it work for over a year.
When i conceived this baby that i am pregnant with right now i found out he was cheating on me with a 16 year old. I was so sad because i knew i couldnt be with him after all the hurt he's caused me. On the day i found out i was having a precious healthy babygirl he decides to tell me he's in a relationship with this 16 year old girl now.
I feel so hurt, its been 8 years on and off(mostly on) and 2 children later and he still has no respect for me and would rather invest his time in a 16 year old then help me out or even see our daughter for that matter.
Sometimes i feel so alone and I pray everyday that ill be able to handle two babies on my own.
I know its sort of a depressing topic but it hurts and i cant seem to shake the feeling.
Just needed to get it all out there, Thanks for taking the time to read it  |
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Jul 17th, 2008, 07:26 AM
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Jul 17th, 2008, 07:57 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | what an asshole..! I doubt he'll be with the CHILD long, I know that aint the point- Im sure this will just make u twice as determined 2 be a fab mum, and maybe u'll find a man that treats u with the respect u deserve hun..!  |
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Jul 17th, 2008, 07:59 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | My partner left me when i was in hospital 6 weeks ago, so now im doing it alone...there are heaps of us around..if you scroll down abit on the main page there is actually a seperate forum for it .. "single parents"  |
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Jul 17th, 2008, 09:41 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | You're def not alone hun, there's plenty of fabulous single mummies on here. You will be a brilliant Mum, and if you ever need to talk, or rant about stuff, well that's what the lovely members of this forum are here for, to listen and support you. Stay positive hun.
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Jul 17th, 2008, 11:24 AM
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| I'm gonna be a single mommy too hun, and I'm really quite worried about it too. But from the sounds of it babes, he really doesn't deserve you if he's treating you that way.  If you ever need to talk I'm here xXx | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 17th, 2008, 11:39 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | im so sorry this happened to you, im sure you will cope perfectly and e a fantastic mummy to both your children xx |
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Jul 17th, 2008, 12:59 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | he is a complete arse hun, u can do so much better
im sure you will be a fantastic mommy and this will make you all the more determined to be able to do it
were here if u need us though dont forget
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Jul 17th, 2008, 13:06 PM
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| I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you but you sound so strong. Your little girls will love having a mummy so full of love and care for them.
Lots of hugs!
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Jul 17th, 2008, 13:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Your better of without him!  He`s not worth your time. You`ll be a brill mummy, keep your chin up, and enjoy what you`ve got hunni. Cause it`s much better than what he`s got.  |
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