biteable

Im just wondering if im the only one not to feel there baby move properly at 21wks,every1 said i should feel it earlier as it isnt my 1st,but up til now all im getting is flutters that started wk 20 and there not very often.I did tell the scan woman and we could see him kicking she reckons hes just content and lazy lol,im seeing the midwife tues so will mention it

luvbunsazzle

Im exactly the same as you, feel Grape moving with flutters, but no kicks as of yet. When i had my scan Grape was kicking away, so all was ok, some people just take longer, regardless if it's there 1st or 3rd!!

biteable

im glad im not the only one,thanks has relieved my worry a little

MummyJade

I am 24 weeks and only just started feeling her kick every day, At my scan i said i dont feel her much and she said its nothing to worry about it. Happens with most people. every baby is different!! And at least you know you have a lovely home for your little if he is content and lazy! he is just chilling while he got the chance and the room still!

xx

XKatX

Don't worry hun, it will happen. I thnk it also depends on the position LO is in too. I sometimes don't feel mine for days, then suddenly it moves position and off it goes!! Feels like it's in training for the olympics some days1

cosmotbear

I agree with kat, I have a couple of manic pubchbag days and then a couple of really quiet days, think LO switches position and you can't feel kicking at all. Maybe your LOs are facing inwards, could be their comfy place! MW said to me that kicks only regular after 28 weeks.

carries

I felt wriggling from about 18.5 weeks but to be honest the last couple of days havent really felt anything (apart from a kick when OH was playing guitar again last night!). Midwife says that they dont become regular until 22-26 weeks and not to worry.

GemGems

Dont worry luv. I was panicking just like you. I only felt flutters up until last Sunday and then BAM!! She's been booting me ever since! And right at this minute, she's taking it out on my bladder which is not good! Your LO will start kicking you soon. Some days are stonger than others. And also remember, he could be facing inwards and maybe thats why you cant feel him as much.

Ooooooo, gotta go, need the loo!!!!!

Vickie

I didn't start feeling strong kicks and movements until after 24 weeks. Prior to that it was mostly flutters, and depending on the position of the baby there were days that I felt almost no movement

maybebaby

I think it is normal. I didn't feel any proper kicks, etc, until 3 weeks ago!!