Aidan's Mummy

hey gurls

ever since ive been preg i have been constantky worrying about LO. it all seems like a really long dream at the moment and i cant believe such a precious gift is being given to me. i just want my pregnancy to hurry up and get my LO out safley im so scared of losing this lil one even tho im like half way thorugh my pregnancy. is anyone else really scared of this. it just seems to good to be truw and i cant imagine being a mummy. and its always on my mind about loosing my lil one. anyone else feeling like this
xx

rae05

I don't worry about losing her so much as I worry about her coming out with something seriously wrong with her. Now don't get me wrong, I will love her just the same, but every mother prays for a healthy baby, and I do not believe for a second that anyone is not heart broken when they find out their beautiful baby has something wrong with them.

But yes, I am entirely paranoid 24/7 that the baby will be blind or deaf or have some sort of horrible disorder that is going to affect her for the rest of her life. I just try not to think about it. There is no indication in any of my scans or blood work that anything would be wrong, and I think it is just being paranoid in general.

We cannot go through the rest of our pregnancies worrying that we will lose the baby or that he/she will have something wrong. Can you imagine what basketcases we would be by the time they finally get here?

Aidan's Mummy

im sure your lil gurl is going to be absoulty perfect hunni

an yeah we all worry about our lil one having something worng with them.

lol yerp if i carry on like this ill be rocking in a corner by the end of my pregnancy . i think its cos the 20 week scan is like 8 days away and im petrified that somthing is going to be worng. but hopefully when that scan is over i can relax and start calling my bum he or she lol instead of baby.
xx

missjacey44

At the begining.. i was so worried something would go wrong and the worst would happen. But now like Rae.. i worry about baby coming early or when he does eventually come that something is going to be wrong. Iv had some quite bad nightmares and i wake up in shock almost crying. I think most pregnant woman feel like this..some more than others but i think its 'normal'

xXDonnaXx

I've been paranoid since the day I found out I was pregnant. Thinking I was going to miscarry! Thankfully I haven't. Now I just get paranoid about baby's health, like Rae said. But I try my best to think positive.