suzan

The spotting is still theere!!

I couldnt sleep because I was so scared!! I stayed up until 4am!!! THen I went in to sleep though I knew I was still spotting brown.

I had very light cramping but I was so sleepy so I slept. THen I woke up today after DH kissed me, then I took a tissue and wiped in bed and the discharge is still theere

We called the doctor and I HATED HIM! He wouldnt let me finish what I had to say! I told him that I was ok, that I have never had any issues until yesterday and that I was sure it was from the transvaginal ultrasound. He was like "no its not, maybe u did the deed with ur DH and it caused it" I told him that we did nothing and I was sure it was from that, then he insisted it wasnt.

What an a$$hole!! Isnt that long stick entered down theeeere same thing as doing the deed?! THEN IT SHOULD CAUSE THE SAME THING! DH told me maybe he prefers not to say it could be caused by it not to face problems.

I AM SO MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want this to stop!! I love our baby! It was healthy yesterday I dont want anything bad to happen to him

Stephanie16

OMG your Dr is so rude. What a personal thing to say to you. Have you not got a midwife you can speak with. I would try not to worry though, what about if you go to A and E? xx

shockd&amazed

Suzan!!! So sorry to hear this!
Can you get another scan to check all's ok today?
Or if it gets heavier just go to A and E?x thinking of you hunxxx

suzan

I dont have a midwife here! I know no one! We have been living here for 3 yrs and never heard of a good midwife.

Mervs Mum

You need to calm down Suzan. You being so angry and stressed is worse for the baby than the spotting.

If its brown its old blood - normal and fine. If it's bright red and flowing then be concerned. Just try to take a breath and relax. Its not good gettign so worked up darling. I know you are scared - we have all been there at some point. Dr's can be a little blunt I know but I'm sure he wuldnt leave you if there were any possibility of a problem.

I have heard lots of people say they spotted after a t/v scan.

Please relax sweetie - I dont like to hear you stressing.

x

suzan

Oh hun!
The doc told me to go and I can have a friendly scan with no charges.. I am not sure though bec we were planning to go on Wednesday to check the gender. If the spotting stops I will go tomorrow, if not then today

nikky0907

What an idiot of a doctor! Of course that there is a possibility that it's from your transvaginal!

But,just calm down,don't get ahead of yourself.Nothing is gonna happen to your baby...

If it doesn't stop during the day,you could always go to the doctor to ease your mind.He won't be able to dismis you that easily when you are there...

Stephanie16

What about taking yourself to A and E and explain what is happening they may be able to refer you for a scan. I am sure it will be all okay though so try not to worry. xx

suzan

I will have to go to a private clinic to do so, here doctors in public ones are idiots and uneducated, I have heard so many bad stories that I got scared.

Will have to go to see my doc. Thanks for all ur suggestions!

suzan

I cant stop stressing, though I am convinced that stress will be causing the cramps. I am alone at home now, I wish DH was here though he cant help me with this issue. I have no family members here and its worse. We are going to see our families this coming Thursday and now I Am scared. I hope I feel my baby move a little to know he is ok. If I still spot I will go for an u/s, if not then anyway I was going tomorrow

I am really trying not to worry or stress but with the miscarriages in my history I cant help but worry