16mumtobe

i feel so lonley. since i become pregnant all my friends dont want to know me anymore and im just stuck in the house all day doing nothing. and today i just hit rockbottom i havnt been able to stop crying. So i rand my OH who is at college but on his lunch hour and its only 10 mins walk away and i said can you come home for lunch and just give me a cuddle cos i really need one right now. and he said" i cant im going to town with my mates" so i said ok neraly in tears a and he said "what you being silly for im only at college" so all his mates started laughing and i heard gilrs laughs aswell and he just left the conversation with my sobbing my heart out down the phone to him. Was i worng to ask him to come home?? and why is he hanging aroundf with a load of girls?? i just cant stop crying . sorry for the moan
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Carolyn

didn't want to read and run hun men are very odd creatures/critters. we all have down days, is there someone else you can call, something else you can do to take your mind off it for a while? your OH is going to need telling later though, how you're feeling etc. hope you feel better soon, x

16mumtobe

ive told him time and time again how im feeling he just dosnt seem to get it. i mean he will be nice for like a day and then go back like this.
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ellasmummy

Thats men for ya! They never understand how we are feeling and stuff like that! Is there nobody you could go visit? I have down days too and tend to take it out on OH but its not fair to do that (even though its tempting sometimes). Talk to him later and explain how its made you feel. Im sure you will be ok hunny! x

16mumtobe

nah all i had up here were friends and even they dont wana know now. i live in hull and all my family live 170 miles away im milton keynes. apart from my mum and daa but my mums at work and my dad is to busy on his comp
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ellasmummy

aww hun I do not know what to suggest then Just give your OH time, remember boys are not as mature as us girls! Maybe the nerves of becoming a dad are starting to kick in. He may want to be around his mates being imature as he is afraid of everything that is happening! x

16mumtobe

yer mabey. thanks hun
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Stephanie16

Oh that is really mean of him. He should have come back even if it was for 10 mins. Here is a big !! can you not go and see your family or anything? xx

16mumtobe

nah they all live down south in milton keynes. i would ring my sis bt shes at work
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Stephanie16

can you not take yourself our shopping or something to cheer yourself up? That is what i would do xx