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Jun 30th, 2008, 16:37 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aww hunny  I'm sorry you're feeling so low and OH is being a git... I hope you're feeling a bit better now, you should have messaged me! You know where I am if you want to talk  |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 16:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | sorry ur feeling down babe...we all have crappy days like that. as 4 ur OH, men r useless especially in these situations.
keep ur chin up xx |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 16:42 PM
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| more and more of my mates have stopped texting me and it is so anoying only because we are pregnant doesnt mean we wouldnt wana meet up and go shopping or a night out!!!! Men are like this and no u were not in the wrong askin him to come home and see you!
My OH takes note and listens to me if i cry. I dont have any advice other than talk to him let him no how he makes u feel and that if he doesnt pull his head from his ass he will come home to no one! that might work lol
Are you working at the moment? |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 17:52 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I think it is so hard to be the one who stays home. You do feel isolated. Men don't seem to understand that feeling. I got frustrated with my OH the other night b/c I was lonely for "ADULT" interaction. I told him we were going to go out to eat and he chose to go to a restaurant where one of his cute, young, thin employees works part time. I got pretty jealous b/c he couldn't think of anything to say to me, but every time his employee came to wait on us, he made some joke or had some fun conversation with her. He couldn't understand why I was uncomfortable or felt like a third wheel. When dinner was over he asked what was wrong and I told him that he makes me mad when he flirts with other women, but acts like I don't exist. He thought I was being silly. Of course, I realize that if it was someone I know well or that I am friends with, I wouldn't have any problem with his behavior. But being pg, hormonal and fat makes me suspicious and jealous. Sorry you are having to deal with this right now. I hope you can talk to your OH and get him to see your point of view. |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 18:56 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by moomin_troll more and more of my mates have stopped texting me and it is so anoying only because we are pregnant doesnt mean we wouldnt wana meet up and go shopping or a night out!!!! Men are like this and no u were not in the wrong askin him to come home and see you!
My OH takes note and listens to me if i cry. I dont have any advice other than talk to him let him no how he makes u feel and that if he doesnt pull his head from his ass he will come home to no one! that might work lol
Are you working at the moment? | nah not yet hun ive just left school. but ive applied for a job at primark so hopefully fingers crossed ill get it
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Jun 30th, 2008, 20:15 PM
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Originally Posted by 16mumtobe nah not yet hun ive just left school. but ive applied for a job at primark so hopefully fingers crossed ill get it
xx | I was thinking if you worked it would get you out of the house ect
Id love to work in Primark lol there isnt one in my town tho  I start my leave soon so i will be on here all day every day if you need a chat  |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 20:35 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Oh,the job at Primark is a great idea hun,I hope you get it...If not,find something to fill out your day.It will make you feel a lot better.
Your OH is a guy,they are slower than most species on Earth...
The important thing is that he is there for you and he will always cuddle you when he comes home...  |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 20:38 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Sometimes, men just don't get it. I hope you are feeling better now!!  |
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