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Jun 30th, 2008, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Stephanie16 can you not take yourself our shopping or something to cheer yourself up? That is what i would do xx | yeah i might do hun thanks for the suggestion. oooooooo i might go and get something for bubba. good idea:: thanks 
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Jun 30th, 2008, 12:47 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  go shoping and take your mind off it  XXX |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 12:49 PM
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| Aw  Don't feel bad about the fact that he's with girls! When I was in high school we used to go to lunch with a huge group of us, boys and girls.
Just remember it's harder for guys to come to grips with the fact that they're going to have a baby! We feel pregnant but guys are very visual creatures. A lot don't come to terms with it until the baby is born! My OH is similar so try and not worry too much. |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 12:54 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Ah hun...try not to worry....also you will be surprised how something small may seem something big when your pregnant...those girls could be just walking past laughing at something else or friends....try to remember what you was like when you was at school....i bet you had freinds who were boys and you wernt seeing them!
I dont know how far away you are from Hull City Council but i went on there and found this..... We run antenatal sessions just for pregnant teenagers and dads-to-be. Your parents and friends are also welcome to come along for support. The sessions cover all kinds of topics, like pain relief in labour and healthy pregnancies. There are different kinds of activities, such as quizzes or making your own baby book.
The antenatal session runs every Tuesday at 1:30pm, Conifer House. Find out how to get here at the bottom of the page.
If you really don't want to be in a group you can get support from your midwife on a one-to-one basis, or see the TPSS midwife on a Tuesday between 1:30-3:30pm.
First Floor Conifer House
32-36 Prospect Street
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Maybe see what groups, clubs etc there are in your area and you may meet some new friends that way - especially if they are pregnant too you will have lost more in common.....i dont know anyone really in my area so thats what im going to do....
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Jun 30th, 2008, 13:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Rachiebaby24 Ah hun...try not to worry....also you will be surprised how something small may seem something big when your pregnant...those girls could be just walking past laughing at something else or friends....try to remember what you was like when you was at school....i bet you had freinds who were boys and you wernt seeing them!
I dont know how far away you are from Hull City Council but i went on there and found this..... We run antenatal sessions just for pregnant teenagers and dads-to-be. Your parents and friends are also welcome to come along for support. The sessions cover all kinds of topics, like pain relief in labour and healthy pregnancies. There are different kinds of activities, such as quizzes or making your own baby book.
The antenatal session runs every Tuesday at 1:30pm, Conifer House. Find out how to get here at the bottom of the page.
If you really don't want to be in a group you can get support from your midwife on a one-to-one basis, or see the TPSS midwife on a Tuesday between 1:30-3:30pm.
First Floor Conifer House
32-36 Prospect Street
Hull
HU2 8PX
(01482) 300 300
Maybe see what groups, clubs etc there are in your area and you may meet some new friends that way - especially if they are pregnant too you will have lost more in common.....i dont know anyone really in my area so thats what im going to do....
Good luck xx | thnaks hun. ill pop into there while im in town today see what its like 
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Jun 30th, 2008, 13:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aw hon sorry to hear your having such a crappy day. I know this doesn't help right now, but perhaps you could arrange to meet him tomorrow lunchtime or have a day set aside during the week where you meet and do something nice for lunch, so you don't feel so isolated all the time. Sending you big  |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 14:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Hun I'm sorry your feeling low I had a day like this yesterday as OH upset me. Your situation sounds quite similar to mine I spend quite a bit of time at home when I'm not working and keep very few friends but I try and find ways to occupy myself. Finding a group to join is a good idea it can be pregnancy related like an aqua natal swimming session or a young mums group like Rachiebaby24 suggested or a group for anyone that would be safe for a pregnant person. This way you can get out and meet new people and socialise. I hope this helps. x |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 14:20 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | You poor thing
I agree with the girls, go shopping, treat yourself!! It'll take your mind of off it!!
You cant tell me im being too nosey if you like but how comes your friends dont seem to want to know now your pregnant? |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Awww thats rubbish fun, but he's male, cant really understand what you're going through.  |
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Jun 30th, 2008, 15:59 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Shopping always helps, hope you've had a good afternoon x x |
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