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Old Jun 27th, 2008, 15:10 PM   #1
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Although parents are being very supportive they keep saying that after the first few months when i get into the swing of things im going to have to move out, which i agree with as their is absolutley not enough room as i have the box room and older brother and sister dont ever intend on moving out, tis stressing me out because i dont want to live by myself! I would ask OH but he is moving in with 4 of our male friends on monday and i wouldnt feel right asking him to uproot and move out again after christmas! Also, he said because we have the biggest room in his new house, and admittedly it is a HUGE room, and there would be room for our double bed plus all the babys stuff, but i really wouldnt want 4 other guys peeping in and wanting to drink and go out and come home drunk and bring girls back etc whilst we're trying to look after the baby, but i dont want to point out how silly the idea is to OH as i know he's just tryingto make the best out of what we have atm.
ALSO, OH was saying 'i bet i'll end up working when we're supposed to go to classes etc.' and i just looked at him, didnt know what to say because didnt want to sound like a control freak by screaming 'you'll bloodywell be getting those days off and if i personally have to drag you away from work on the day igo into labour i will' i mean, i knoww he wants to be there, he specifically asked my mum if he could be in the room with me when it happens etc, but hes not one to say no and i cant help thinking if work ask himto stay a couple of hours or wont let him off to do things hes going to miss it all =(
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Old Jun 27th, 2008, 15:16 PM   #2
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awww it will all work out, life has a funny way of doing that - honest!!!

I would mention the idea of living with your OH when the LO is a few months old tho, he only has to move a roomful of stuff at least!! At least that way you can make plans......
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Hope you feel better after getting it out. Unfortunately I really don't have any advice for you
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Sounds troubling and I hope you find some solutions soon. I sure wouldn't want to live with 4 boys even without a baby! I bet they won't want to be kept awake by screaming baby either. You guys ought to be thinking of the longer term together as a family even if means you have to wait a while before you can head in that direction.
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