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Jun 27th, 2008, 11:05 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Anyone else's OH gone all soppy?? My OH is not a "I love you" everyday sort of man....he normally has his moments when we will just be lying in bed or im in the bath and he's on the toilet (why do men always go toilet when you are in the bath!!) and he just has his moment and tells me how much he loves me or i get a random text etc...he is a very affectionate person but doesnt say what he feels often.
but the past two weeks...i find him staring at me....rubbing my belly and being all over me!!! He even left me a note for me to find in the morning when i go to work saying how much he loves me. and when we go bed he keeps rubbing my belly saying...ahh thats our baby!!
I think he has got preggo brain!! ha ha |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 11:20 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Haha, hope your not complaining.
My OH has always been like that. They way I see it I have to say I love you everytime I talk to him, because thats the last thing I want him to know incase something happens.
We've taken to calling eachother Mummy and Daddy already. Sometime he does the sweetest things. Aww I love him, but I miss him so much. He lives in London and I live down on the coast in Dorset.  Cant wait to move up to him. |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 11:27 AM
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| My OH isnt the most vocal either and yes he has been getting a bit more soppy. People think its odd I think cause ima very tactile person and he really isnt but recently he has been getting more attentive and sleeps either holding my hand or with his hand on my belly...awwwww bless them |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by WaitingForYou Haha, hope your not complaining.
My OH has always been like that. They way I see it I have to say I love you everytime I talk to him, because thats the last thing I want him to know incase something happens.  |
Im not complaining!! Just weird as im not used to it!!
Ha ha i do that too...even if i just pop to teh shops i have to kiss him before i leave...he laughs at me and calls me silly (but i know he loves it!) but i always think what if something happened to me....at least he had a last kiss...!! |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 11:34 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | DH is exactly the same, he doesn't say how he feels much but has started to more and more. Only last night he sent me a text saying how much he loves us both and how much great it is that he's gonna have a little baby to love and look after. He has also started telling me how greatful he is that I came and saved him, he was heavily drinking, smoking weed and in debt. His parents didn't want to know as he got his mum into debt  but we're sorting it all out now |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 11:35 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I dont think ill ever get an I love you everyday lol!!! but I have been getting more touches... like if Im at the computer when he walks by he'll touch my head (not like a dog or anything lol)
I have also noticed when he comes to bed... he places his hand on my belly!!! He wont do this if I was wide awake unless I say "Shes moving"!!! Dunno why!!
The other night I noticed he did it so I said to him in the morning and he was like "yeah and she kicked me too"!!!
Thought HOW COOL??? |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 11:44 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Aw bless! So sweet! |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 12:28 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by leedsforever like if Im at the computer when he walks by he'll touch my head (not like a dog or anything lol) | 
Mine hasnt really gone soppy as in saying things to me but he keep's doing stuff for me which is nice, he wont let me carry ANY shopping bags unless they have like 1 thing in them, and he keeps cooking for me which is lovely!! |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 12:53 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Mine's always been quite open about his feelings, as am I, but we're not really soppy, more just each other's No 1 fan! But he has got more soppy for sure. Yesterday I went to the supermarket for the first time since getting pregnant (yay me!) and we need more baby socks so I picked up a plain cheap pack of white. He found them on the kitchen table and came over and gave me a big squeeze and a kiss. I guess he thinks it's cute I buy plain boring essentials for the baby! lol |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 13:01 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i reckon it's a combination of the caveman feeling proud of himself, and excitement too!
enjoy it i say!
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