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Old Jun 17th, 2008, 22:00 PM   #1
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I just came home from work after a long 12 hour shift and my daughter came and asked me for money for school tomorrow, so I said to her "Go and get my bag" and my OH starting shouting at me saying " for f**k sake Andrea, do it yourself, you are only F**king pregnant"



This made me crazy angry and I started shouting that he has no idea what it is like to be pregnant and to get out.
He then started saying that he never wanted this baby in the 1st place and that I fell pregnant on purpose
( maybe I should explain that 4 years ago I was told that it would be near impossible that i could fall pregnant due to ongoing Endometrosis and polycystic Ovaries syndrome, I was due to have a Hystorectomy within a couple of years and my doctor told me to not bother with any contraception so i didnt, and after 4 years without it I was pretty sure that I would never fall pregnant)

So it turns out my OH thinks that i magically became pregnant on purpose just to ruin his life
I'm really pissed off that it has taken him til I am 25 weeks pregnant to tell me this, I cant believe he has been so insensitive, this is not the guy I fell in love with 6 years ago
he has gone to stay at his mums.
Oh my god I'm going to be a single parent again with 2 kids, i want to curl up and hide away.

Sorry for my emotional rant
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Old Jun 17th, 2008, 22:01 PM   #2
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Old Jun 17th, 2008, 22:01 PM   #3
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That is awful of him to say.
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Old Jun 17th, 2008, 22:02 PM   #4
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Old Jun 17th, 2008, 22:03 PM   #5
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Ok, I am really sick of the men treating their spouses this way. So much of this has been going on in many of your lives recently.

I am sorry! I hope that he has a change of heart and that what he said was out of anger but not because that's how he truly feels.
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Old Jun 17th, 2008, 22:04 PM   #6
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im so sorry you have to deal with this right now some guys really need to grow up!
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Old Jun 17th, 2008, 22:04 PM   #7
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Aww Hun I'm sure he didn't mean it.....It was still an awful thing to say to you though. I'm sure he'll be grovelling tomorrow, but in the meantime I'm sending lots of hugs
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What an ass. He had no right to say those things to you and ought to be ashamed of himself. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that! Some men can be such utter dicks sometimes, it's amazing.
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I'm sure he just said it because he was angry and not because that's how he feels, but that was such an awful thing to say. I'm sure after a night at his mum's he'll realise what an idiot he's been x
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