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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  so upset...is it my fault???
im so angry and upset!
tommorrow i have my next scan wen we find out what it is and my OH has jus started a big argument telling me how he doesnt want my mother at the scan with us as its going to ruin it being our moment
no only is he selfish enogh to do this night before but hes saying im basically bang out of order and selfish for wanting my mum there and if he had it his way she wouldnt be at the birth too....ive tryed to explain to him that every girl in pain wants their mum and how much i want her there tomo but he is having non of it!!!!!
so were now in seperet rooms me in tears thinking what do i do??
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:38 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Take your mum with you. If you want her there than go ahead and have her there. He's being silly! Is he jealous of his mum not being there or something? (..unsure?) |
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Men what to do with them...
It sounds like he is a lil jealous Men can get like that...I love my mommy around alot too girl..She will be in the room too...Does your mom get along with him??? Ask him why he feels the way he feels like we do with kids...Ask why then wait til he's done and tell him your point of view...  |
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | no he jus says that it should be our special moment and nobody elses...see me and my mum are extremely close but he cant understand that i wan her there too and says im being selfish for not wanting it to be jus our special day. |
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:43 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I don't see how it's selfish? The baby is going too be your mums Grandson, or daughter. It's still as special too your mum as it is you and your partner. Ohh I don't know, Men! There a pain sometimes!  |
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:43 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hun i would say have your mom there! I mean as much as its a special moment for him, its also a special moment for you and your mom to! |
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I'd still take my Mum. I know men feel pushed aside when we give it the old 'Its my body and i'll be the one giving birth, i'll do what I like' thing, but that's exactly what it is. If you want your Mum there, then take her. |
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Have a real long discussion with your OH and explain exactly how you feel. Reassure him that it won't spoil your moment and that it means a lot to you to have your mum there.
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:46 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | he says im not thinking of him jus myself
i want him there to but i reckon he is guna make me choose x x x |
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Jun 17th, 2008, 17:50 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Men can be so childish sometimes |
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