I went to the toilet a couple of hours ago and had loads of discharge like snot, I've had this since about 12 weeks and midwife said it was fine. Well I had loads today when I wiped myself on a tiny bit of red blood. I have had really bad period pains for about a week now. I thought I would wait til I have my midwife appointment in 2 weeks hoping it was just stretching pains but now I've had a tiny bit of blood I'm getting worried. I have felt the baby move yesterday and last night. When I lie down the baby moves up it did last night but I haven't checked since. So that is worrying me.


My brother has a gf and she has made him go against me and I don't like how she is and what she does. She wastes all his money and has changed the way he is. He talks badly about my mum because she is disabled. He hardly comes to see the family and when he does he just acts distant. We have tried to look out for him but he wont have it. She goes to the same college as me and she lets he male friends feel her up and grabs guys she doesn't know bums. That is not something you do when you have a bf. She is in one of my lessons and all she does is talk about hers and my brothers sex life. Right in front of me. I just ignore her. I haven't spoken to her in 6 weeks now and the last time I did speak to her it was fine. Last week I got some new boots which cost me £10 which I got with my EMA for going to college. She went and told my brother that I got some really expensive boots which caused an argument between him and my mum. She has now said that I have been giving her dirty looks today which I was actually trying not to look in her direction because she would get the wrong idea. Her friend said she wants to hit me. I have not done anything to deserve to be hit so that is bad anyway. And the fact that I'm pregnant just shows how nasty these girls are.



My brother used to say he would hit any girl who even threatened me and now his girlfriends friends doing it he's taking their side. I am so dissapointed in him he used to be my best friend whilst growing up :'(

Sorry you're having a rough time hun. Speak to the m/w on monday and see what she says.

I have to say it all sounds like the type of behaviour I'd expect from my 14 yr old....'dirty looks' ...I mean come on....she needs to grow up. Ignore her. If she wants to act like a kid let her. Your brother will learn in time hun.

xx

sorry your bro's gf is giving you a hard time hunni.

As for the discharge maybe give your mw a quick ring and see what she says

awww hun if you ever need to tlk just pm me i no how ure feeling (except i werent pregnant at the time and it were my sister) and as for discharge ring nhs direct they should give you a bit of advise but try not to worry hun some people do get spottin from time to time loads of hugs xx

aww hun I bet it makes you feel real horrid at college.... not something you want when your hormones are all over the place with the pregnancy!!! Like Mervsmum said definetly ignore her at college cos she sounds like an immature rat!!!
I do hope your bro comes round.... he'll soon realise what a low life she is.... they always do!!!! cheer up hun... and I hope the MW goes well xx

crikey thats real poopy!
last thing you need whilst your pregnant is some stupid little tw@t threatening you!

ive had some friends that went through similar circumstances. of course, me being the big sis type to my mates, i would be the one to sort them out. i can be quite scary when very angry. not violent at all, just have a way with words.i SO hate little bully bitches!

do you think you could have a chat 1-to-1 with your bro? show him how upset shes getting you?

best thing to do atm is ignor her and carry on like she doesnt exist. she should get bored pretty soon.if the situation gets really bad, talk to your collage. surley they can do somthing?

hey hunny, I had blood streaked in my discharge the past couple of days it has stopped now though, it started after sex though so I think the cervix had just gotten a bit irritated. Have you had sex recently? it could be that.

It is worrying, I started getting paranoid that I hadnt felt her move, but then next minute she was wriggling away just fine. take care xxxx

she seems like a complete bitch didnt that behaviour get left in the classroom when we were about 10 she sounds like shes trying to cause trouble try and ignore her babe shes not worth worrying about.

Hi 7WZ!

I am so sorry you have had to go through all this stress at the moment. This girl is not worth your time or energy - anyone who threatens to hit a pregnant woman is obviously a bit of a psycho and needs her head examined. Hopefully, your brother will eventually see what she is really like. Possibly try to build bridges with your brother by inviting him to meet you for coffee and just chat. I would avoid criticising his girlfriend at this point as he probably would just react and go on the defensive. Once you and your brother are close again, he will probably be very protective of you and see what a nasty piece of work his girlfriend is.

As for the discharge, I would ask midwife - probably just a bit of discharge - it increases a lot in pregnancy.