Poor you hunnie. Everything is getting on top of you all at once. I'd phone your MW today and see if she wants to see you or not. Best to get it checked out.

I completely agree that you should talk to your brother. You should just tell him what you told us about how you miss him and you miss being his friend. I also agree that you shouldn't mention his gf at all. If he brings her up, tell him that this is about you and him, and how you can fix your relationship. I hope everything is ok with you and bubs. Try to relieve some stress (maybe go shopping for new boots!). You need to relax and just enjoy your little one.

sorry to hear ur going through a tough time hun!!
ignore that cow!! it'll make u look like the bigger person if u just show her ur not bothered! seems to me lke she needs to grow up!!

Thanks all, I was trying to ignore her before but she has tried twice to start an argument between me and my brother and he falls for it everytime. I'm just gonna ignore the 2 of them now. I was trying to be nice to him hoping he would go back to how he was before and realise what his gf is like but I'm sick of it. I've got my own life to get on with and I can't be bothered worrying about him. I did try. He's just going to have to learn on his own if he's being stubborn like that and wont listen to the family.