babe2ooo

Hello everyone

I'm so down today i just wanna cry and cry and cry , i've just come up stairs to sit by myself and cry isnt that sad, i've felt like eveything has got on top of me today,

well i have afew thing to talk about today at work i worked from 11 til 8 and my OH was like when you get home i'll cook you tea but did he no i ended up cooking it myself but let me just say he hasnt been at work today all he has done is go for a drive in his car the whole day, he never does anything to help,

Me and my OH have callum who is his 7yr who i love very much his mum passed away about 4 yrs ago now and i've been with him around 2yrs now and he see me as his mum which i love but some time my OH never helps out like i finshed work at 8 and then when i came home i had to put callum to bed which i love to do but when i finish so late it would be nice if he could do it,

I cleaned the whole house yesterday and i come back from work and its a mess and my OH hasnt even bothered to clean up, i said what have you been doing all day and hes like cleaning the car, i've been at work for like 8hours and he does shit all,

i cant cope anymore my bump had got very big in the last week or so i've just hit 24weeks and i need more help with things as i get sleepy but he doesnt understand i still do everything, when we were ttcing he was like i'm going to look after you so much yeah when is that going to happen and when i was like 10weeks he used to say when your bigger i'll do more but he hasnt,

i'm so stressed as well we have 2 cats to one is a kitten and one is around one and they can be a hand full but he never helps out with them i do it all, i'm sick and tired of everything he makes me so mad and i know this is pregnant me talking cause i love him one day and am so happy and the next i wanna kill him,,, do you guys know what i mean??? anyone else OH doing there head in???

thanks for reading xx

Lauz_1601

I know exactly how your feeling I have been feeling alot like this recently constantly up and down, I feel like my stress levels are hitting the roof and I get so emotional and just want to cry, damn hormones, I know we blame them for everything but its true! You feel like you cant control your emotions and its a horrible feeling.

I hope it passes for you soon hun, unfortunatly its soemthnig we can do nothing about, except try and take a deep breath and take it easy, and ask DH for a bit more help, if only they could be a bit more understanding st times xxxxxxx

babe2ooo

being pregnant is so hard sometime, i hope it does pass it alway does but it alway comes back i feel bad when i'm mean to OH but sometime i cant help it

Lauz_1601

mmm yeh you do feel kinda bad afterwards yet dont admit it hehe!

I had a really bad day on friday, I felt so shit that I didnt go to a friends engagement party, I was having a very emotional day, then the next day I felt bad that I hadnt gone! cant win xxxxxx

babe2ooo

yeah thats true, people would get annoyed if you went and didnt have fun but then if you dont turn up its the same thing, theres no winning with some people

mBLACK

Aww I know how you feel, the worst thing to ever say to a pregnant woman when she's down is 'you only feel this way because of the hormones', but it is most of the time true (so I respect + even admire you for actually being able to say it's pregnant you talking). Hang in there, it's tough but not impossible, just remember that BILLIONS of women before you have done it and you will get through this aswell. Big to you!

babe2ooo

aww thanks hunny reading that makes me feel so much better

nikky0907

I'm sorry,I know how hard it is when there's so much to do and all you actually want is to lie on the couch and rest all day.
Plus(I'm pregnant too so I can say this to you) hormones are a b**ch...
Hang in there,your OH loves you very much,but you see he comes from this unusual species called MEN...They hardly ever do something right,even when they actually want to...

babe2ooo

yeah i spoke to OH 2day and i asked him to help me more and he said he would which is good

7WZ

That's males for you. I love my fiancé but i dont believe what he says when he says he'll do something now. When we were trying to concieve he said he would do so much. ye right!