I find it a bit weird he wants to meet up with you. Don't want to sounds rude or disgusting, but you sure his dad didn't have a 'thing' for you?

Just be careful hun and don't let him upset you. You're better than them

I know what you mean hun, but I really really don't think it's that. We've always got on really well and he is a bit of a joker but he has got 4 kids and he's got a girlfriend and he's never tried anything etc.
My ex hasn't met up with me once (I understand he lives far away but it's not like I just bought a new pair of jeans.) Maybe his dad is trying to find out what I'm gonna do or how I'm gonna manage or. Well he better not offer me to get rid of my baby. Otherwise I am just going to have to attack him xx