Should we all start calling you grandma now? Wow, I have been old for a really long time now if 20 is the new "old".

Lol no good shops in Luton im afraid. Please dont put urself through the stress of visiting Luton. I'll worry about you

I told my mum what the young mums club said & she went sooo pale. It makes her feel dead ancient as genunine nanny & not even 40 yet lol!!

I asked them very nicely if they could make an exception. I explained how I dont know anyone here & its really getting me down. No can do they said, wait for your ante-natel classes.

Oh wow a whole 3 classes that arent until July!!

Ooooh bless ya hunn, that sucks alot. You'll meet people no worries on that front. we do like local meets etc so can always arrange one for you to come on.

LOL ok luton is out the question then. x

Oh I guess I'm over the hill in september when I turn 21 then.

Maybe its' because kids as young as 12 are having babies now...

Yep u r Becky. Dont worry im 21 in November so i'll be joining you. Better book my place in the local old peoples home now lol

Stupid really. I thought they called anyone a 'young' mum until your 30's now because of careers etc. (Not meaning to be rude to anyone 30+)

I actually asked my Dr just yesterday and in my area you are not classed as an older mum until you are 40+!!! I thought I'd be an older mum as I'll be 34 when I have mine but no!!

I think its pretty harsh you were told you were too old.

Personally I'd prefer to be in a mixed age group of mums, I'm 20 also and I dont know if I'd necessairly want to be in a group specifically for mothers who are classified 'young', it just seems a bit, restricting.

That said, I've already had my first 'tut tut' from a 30+ career mum about being too young! I bit my tongue on returning a comment about her being too old, because, I dont believe there is 'too old'... but... it would have been nice to get my own back!

I had the same problem

I had my first aged 20 and I'll be 34 when my second is born and there are advantages and disadvantages to both!! I'd like to got to a class with all ages in their - we can learn a lot from everyone.

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