What horrible things to say to you hon. But don't take any notice of her! We're all looking lovely no matter how 'big' or 'small' we are. We're doing what our bodies were made for! She's probably jealous because you're all glowing and looking shiny from the inside out!

Id try calling her up on it if she says anything again. I find with people like that (especially if they are friends) if you actually say 'excuse me is there a particular reason you are trying to make me feel crap about my body or are you just being a bitch?' its enough to shit them up!

Try not to worry about it hun, you will be as big or small as the baby needs you to be!

Thats so mean of her!

Even if you WERE to end up with massie belly and stretch marks whats her point in making a big deal out of it?! My best friend was really upset when she got stretch marks with her 2nd gorgeous baby, but her husband said the most beautiful and true thing to her, which was that each stretchmark is just like a war wound that shows what she has been through and is just another part of her for him to adore...

Ignore your friend because her comments were just hurtful and unnecessary! x

I'm fortunate, I think, that if anyone says anything bad about me,I won't understand anyway, it's all Bulgaria to me!!!!

Not sure why your friend is making bitchy comments, ignore her, you've got better things to do with your time than worry bout what she says or thinks.

Chill, you have us

Thanks guys i just think P!ss off! lol but can never get the words out lol xxx

UGH! Some people just like to get a rise out of others, and don't think before they speak.

I remember my OH's brother saying to me during the pregnancy of my first "You will never lose the weight after." If anything, it ticked me off but then I decided to show him! And I did through two pregnancies! Lost all the weight in a short period of time.

Of course, this was coming from a guy who never himself had kids or been with a woman who was pregnant.

People!!

What a horrible thing to say!



It totally sounds to me like she's jelaous.But still,giving you complexes about your body is not something a friend should do.
Especially since she had two kids and knows how sensitive we are about our bodies and intimidated about weight.

Don't listen to her.I've seen your bump and it is fantastic.Your body will snap back into shape after you have your boy.

What a bitch!! I think its definately jealousy! Ignore her, your body will be exactly how your baby needs it to be, as longs as baby is healthy & comfy in there who cares?!
I guess your looking rather good compared to how she looked in her pregnancy to get a comment like this?
Take care xx

Oh yes, I've even had one person point out that my love handles are now quite large and you can see them through my shirt. Some people just get carried away, I mean nobody would dare to comment you on your weight if you weren't pregnant, so I don't get it..

Thanks

Yeah kinda she went froma size 12 to size 18 and has never been able to shift it whereas i've always been small UK size 8 Now cant fit into my normal clothes but maternity still too big. But like i say to my OH Even if i went to a size 20 i wouldnt care as long as baby healthy and happy... But for someone to comment like...you know just gets you down. xxx