This post is gonna sound so stupid coz im not normally a very jealous person. I am very insecure but trust craig 110% Not to be big-headed but the man worships the ground i walk on, im really really lucky to have him so ive never truly believed that he's has or would ever cheat on me...of course ive had a few irrational wobblers where ive accused him of stuff but never belived it. Anyhoo he works in a gym which if im having a day where i feel like a whale does bother me coz he works with a lot of very pretty girls. On wednesday wires were crossed (his not mine lol) and i arrived about an hour early to pick him up from work...i was having a bit of an emotional day to start with anyway but after sitting in the car for half an hour i went in to see if i could see him...the recpetionist told me to go through and see if he was in the lounge...well this Amy he works with was there and another girl shuoted on me saying "Amy hasnt seen craig leave yet brooke so he must be floating around somewhere" now this is not hormones or my imagination...this Amy (who is gorgeous but doesnt know how to smile lol) looked at me outta the corner of her eye and drew me THE dirtiest look ive ever ever had!!! then turned on her heels and walked away. I went back to the car, annoyed at him coz he wasnt there lol and got so worked up about her! Well while i was sitting waiting i had it all worked out....clearly craig n amy are sleeping together and she couldnt stand seeing "the little woman" finally got hold of craig n started screaming at him down the phone about his "mistress" and how he neednt bother coming home he could go n s&*g her since i dont give him it enough!!!!! Then i hung up and threw myself onto the bed sobbing!!!! Seriously wtf is all that about?!?!?! lol total and utter psycho!!!!! PLease someone tell me they've had a moment when they've had a wobble like this!!!!! lol I felt like an emotional wreck...the poor man! lol xx

aww i wouldnt worry hes not interested in them girls he works with,thats just a job to get money which is going towards you and your baby hes not thier to look at them and deffinatly not to sleep with them..you said he worships the ground you walk on so seems as though you havnt got a thing to worry about

i was out with my bf the other day shopping (trying to find new clothes that id look a bit gd in lol)anyway it didnt happen,couldnt find much and i also feel like a fat whale! anyway we were on the bus going home and this lady come on with a short skirt on n heels n i saw him like staring at her legs (usually this wouldnt really bother me) but this day i screamed on the bus 'look then go on staree at them legs! lovely! i said get your hands off me!looking at other women holdin my hand your discusting! lool way OTT but the next day i was fine xx

lol hormones are crazy! x

I've yet to yell at him, but I do get really mopy when he's looking at a hot woman with me along ( I live in vegas, no hope i guess) especially since we can't nookie alot in bed. and get this, one of his friends is bi and when he ( the friend) gets drunk he starts hitting on my DH and texting dirty messages. before i would laugh at it but because we don't nookie much these days its starting to even terrify me that my DH'd get so deprived he would stray ( he wouldn;t thoug) we have talked about it and found some alternatives

though I really would have lashed out at amy, what a snit! not only invoking preg hormones but to get hormones directed at the hubby too. I betcha she's the type that tries to flirt and lure guys away and when she doesn;t win is a snit to the women. ...ooooh now I'm getting riled up, lol XD

Hey honey,

I've not had this yet, but me and hubby are not really going out at the moment. I'm on my own version of bed rest so we're not bumping into anyone.

However, my best friend was telling me that when she was pregnant she was convinced that her hubby was sleeping with everyone - pretty or not - lol!

She said that I would get it too - so definitley the hormones me thinks!! Maybe its good that we are staying in.

Re Amy - I agree with Meggabear!!

xxxx

Oh my god, I've just posted something similar and can't work out if it's my hormones clouding my judgement or something else.

I want my rational brain back!

Oh my god brooke this is completley me!

i dont want to sound big headed either, but ive always had a lot of respect for myself and never felt threatend by other girls, BUT about 2 weeks ago i turned mental! i turned into this paronoid, jealous weirdo! haha .... me and my bf both have facebook (however he rarely gos on) but one day i got home and looked on his profile and had noticed he had added some proper stunning girl! OH MY GOD i went insane!! and fell out with him for a week , i cried over it, argued over it repeatedly, and then convinced myself they must have been talking to each other. Infact i even made him go back online and delete her! hahaha. well anyway turns out it was a girl that his best friend like and he had been telling him about her and wanted my bf to have a look at her. which still pisses me off! but i no he would never cheat on me.

so yeah i completley understand where your coming from lol, its definatley the hormones, and the fact where 'bigger' making us insecure xx

I can totally undesrtand hun. Me and DF love each other to pieces, i know he would never cheat on me in a million years. However i feel sometimes he is going to leave me. I get so worried he has found someone else at work. If he changes his status on facebook and one of his female co-workers replies i automatically think he is 'doing' her. I cannot control my feelings they seem so real. Thankfully DF understands it's not really me saying those horrible things. I'm sure your OH understands too xxx

The amount of arugements me and me hubby have had about this convo,

Im so paranoid an jealous of other girls, i wasnt like it before and now all of a sudden because i feel like a whale in me clothes i feel a frumpy wife that cant satisfy her husband cos with the sexual positions its bit difficult with bump but i cant seem to help myself.

He can be on his forums and when he was speaking to a women on the other end about fish i was like whay ya doing? and hes met her before an GOD my thinking was on overdrive that time he went over but when he came back he said was an oldish couple i felt relieved lol.

Although when i get insecure i try an tell hubby that im feeling in secure i dont get any of these he gets annoyed because i should know being married to him blady blah i feel an emotional wreck after but i think he does understand in the end because he knows me being preg somehow has sent me over the edge I know how you feel hun x