Morning!

I hope you are all well this morning.

I am having a "paranoid" day and wondered if you any of you lovely ladies could possibly put my mind at rest.

For some reason today I don't feel pregnant does this sound stupid? I mean at night my belly looks bigger than during the day but this morning I think my belly doesn't look as big I guess this could just be because I am getting used to it??

I have my 16 week mw scan thursday so hope everything is ok as I understand they listen to the heartbeat then is that right?

I had a flutter last weekend but nothing since particularly and my tummy was really sore in the night.

Am i being pathetic and worrying for the sake of worrying?

also had diarroeah (sorry tmi) on Saturday night not lots though

ure not pathetic, we all go thru these days esp at your stage where u dont feel constant movement yet, nor are u so big and ure like am i really pregnant? i am sure they will listen to the heartbeat at the 16 wk scan. i would only worry if something was really unusual like pain or bleeding G-D forbid.

so bottom line ure just as cuckoo at the rest of us!

Thanks hun your right I think I must be going mad! Haven't really worried too much recently as mum has been really poorly so been focused on her and getting her better but now things are more settled I guess I want to worry about other things! Also hormones raised their ugly head this morning as didn't have anything to wear as maternity trousers I had brought the hem has come undone useless! then I ripped maternity tights the only pair I had left! I guess today should just try and chill out and stop worrying about everything eh?!!

Thanks for your message thought much appreciated xx

why not take yourself out to get something more to wear, treat yourself to something yummy to eat. sorry your mum has been poorly hope she makes a speedy recovery. xx

I still get days when I feel less pregnant than others - even now my belly is loud and proud. I've also had loads of weird tummy symptoms but baby still seems to be ticking along fine.

I agree that we all feel a bit paranoid sometimes - it's only natural I suppose when something so important is happening.

They listened to baby's heartbeat at my 15 week appointment and it was lovely - I was on
I hope hearing your baby's heart is just as reassuring and lovely for you

totally normal hun I felt exactly the same at around 16 weeks too, I couldnt wait to start feeling proper kicks to reasuure me and sure enough I soon did! Soon you'll have an obvious bump and feel all sorts of wrigging and kicks and you will wonder why you ever worried, thats exactly what I was thinknig this morning! xxxxx

I feel exactly the same now!
I literally have NO symptoms...don't get me wrong,I'm loving it after the terrible ordeal in the 1st trimester,but I somehow catch myself looking at the scan pics wondering ''does this really look like a baby?Could it be something else and the doctor mixed it up?''...And wondering ''is this really a baby bump?Maybe I just ate something funny.''

I want her to move!To let me know she's here!

Thanks hun for your reply x I am sure I am just being paranoid can't wait to hear baby's heartbeat on Thursday xx

Thanks hun I can't wait to start feeling them and look pregnant I guess it is all in the head isn't it?!

thanks for your reply x