i sooooooo bloody annoyed my poor oh's grandad passed away and tommrows the dreaded funeral is tommorw! let me just explain ive neva been to one and have luckly neva experanced death untill now, alone with that and being pregnant atm i dont know weather to laugh or cry so tommorw i think im doing to be a wreck ! the whole thing is my oh and his two cousins are going to be going in the car and the 3 girls (partners) were going to get there how ever we decided so that was fine now its been changed so my oh cousins gfs get to go in the car an im alone ! ok i know its not the point and i should be thinking about his grandad and how hes feeling but im bloody pregnant and an emotional wreck ! y do they get to go and im left out !!!To top it all off its my birthday tommorw ! i cant help but be really annoyed im being left out i should be there for my oh hes going to be in bits, i have issues leaving the house alone ect so going some where like this im really worked up and i know its not good for the baby !!


Hope no one minds the rant sorry ladies

firstly happy birthday 4 tomorow

& secondly why are they leaving u?! id hate that aswell hun.. iv been too 3 funerals... and there horrible... but suppose u want to go to support ur oh... i jus dont get y u have been left to go on ur own :S surely sum1 else could offer to take u or something x

thanks sweet

glad it doesnt make sence to you too ... its making me not want to go ... im yet to decide i supose xxx

hmmm... wel if u havent even got a way to get there or no one is offering a lift or nothing to how do they expect u to go & ur pregnant there upsetting x

Aww thats really horrible.

I am sorry to hear about your loss and also Happy Birthdya for tomorrow!

I would be asking to your OH how exactly you are meant to be getting there and how come 2 other girlfriends (non pregnant) are suddenly getting a lift??
It makes no sense to me.

I know what its like to be pregnant and at a funeral as its happened now both my pregnancies and its no fun and VERY emotional so take LOADS of hankies.

Emma.xx

maybe they got on wit him better..someones died and your bothered about gettin in the car.. if it was the other way round and one of them got left out im sure you wouldnt be two bothered.. i think this just all sounds selfish,.. its a funeral not a wedding... if you would even consider not going because of a lift it jus goes to show.. i do apologise if this sounds abit rude bt im a truthful person

I'm sorry to hear this all going on. Sometimes when someone dies, our emotions can be very erratic, and unpredictable. I would not recommend trying to go alone. Have a friend, or your OH to take you at least, if you can. I am so sorry to hear of his passing, and having to go to a funeral can not be a good feeling on your birthday. I have lost my daddy when I was 12, my best friend when I was 16, and my Nana in 2002. Now another good friend of mine is suffering from her third round of cancer and I fear things aren't looking too good. One piece of advice I have is, don't let ANYONE tell you how you should feel. You feel the way you do, and that is your way of grieving. You are NOT selfish. These are your emotions, and if you try hiding them away, it will only take you to a very unhealthy place. I hope everything works out tomorrow...try to save part of your day for you...even if you don't feel like celebrating.

Thats not rude thats just plain nasty

Just wanted to lend some support, I think it's odd that you got left out and being preggers too! Wether you were close or not if arrangements had been made for the 3 of you girls to go together and then plans change, it would have made sense for someone to have made arrangements for you or at least check you could make your way there to pay your respects. Your OH will need you today, but you also have to think about you and baby and not get stressed out. I hope it goes as well as it can today and also wishing you a happy birthday xxx