i am kinda afraid of having sex, i always think it will shake the baby too much, am i insane? my husband isnt the most gentle in this department either! he thinks we can have the same sex now that we did before and it just scares the crap outta me!

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I don't think it harms ur baby or nout..actually heard it makes labour a wee bit easier lol..
ive also read..the baby doesnt get harmed but jilts about lol off putting id say 8-)
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I couldn't do it untill 28 weeks because I was scared and then it hurt too much anyway.

haha, my bf told me today on the bus he's put off having sex now because he can see the bump now. I was like "I can't go another 25 weeks without sex!" I don't want to have sex often because of hurting the baby but I need a top up every 4-5 weeks. Relieve the stress!

Your feelings could change at any time. I most certainly didn't want it in my first trimester as I was so tired. But now, I want it!

LOL

Unless you have been told to avoid sexual intercourse, there is nothing wrong with and it will not harm the baby. But, do talk to your OH and ask him to be gentle. LOL

lol well ive went this far without sex..

its not as hard as u think lol..i jus dont like the idea of it x

And don't take this as a surprise - you may bleed, I'm giving you fair warning right now. But it's just natural, since the cervix is so soft. But no there is nothing wrong with every now and then, hell, do it everyday if you want, you just might not find it feels as good or you might find it feels better. Everybody's different.

I hear you on that one - in the first trimester it wasn't as bad but now it's noticeable I am carrying a baby I just can't bring myself to do it lol.