My MIL is coming for a visit for a month or so and I know every time there are problems after a week. Many thing will change ( again ) , complaints about things. I always get upset. And we were told already to make sure her room is clean before she comes.
Last night OH told me that we won't let the dogs in our bedroom while she's here and i asked how many rules are you gonna change. He was not happy about that. He said "don't start", and he didn't talk to me again, went to sleep without helping me putting the dogs to their bed ( area ), lock the gate, washing up.
This morning he got up very early and i had a feeling something was wrong. He didn't talk to me. He just walked pass me like i wasn't there. He didn't take me to buy food like he does every day ( some of you might know i got hit by a car last month and i'm not allowed on my bike again until my baby's born ). And i had trapped nerves in my bum ( both sides ). He said he's leaving the bike for me so i can get food. He took the car to work ( he never drive the bike to work anyway ) I said ok. What else i should do, he was going to work anyway and i don;t have car driving license.
i had to drive to the shop to get food. And i cried because he really upset me.
He knows MIL many times upset me but i guess he won't take any notice this time. He's not happy if i start talking about it. I really don't think it's gonna be good to be here. I don't want to be here . This is not my hormones, i know it. If i got upset again , i will have no one. i can't go home to stay with my mom because it's too far away ( 6 hours ) and i'm not allowed on a long journey because of my pregnancy symptoms.
I'm sitting here right now crying because i don't know what to do.

Sorry girls, i don;t know what to do. i don't mean to start a miserable day for you. Thanks for reading.

oh hunni thats not fair that rules have to change for her you shouldnt be made to feel like you are. I dont know what you could do if he wont talk about it but he really needs to understand how you feel please dont ride that bike no matter how badly u need to its not safe.(bad OH for encouraging it )try not to be too sad and try and make him see how you feel and take care of yourself hope it all works out.

Oh honey. That's so awful. You're having a really stressful time, and you don't need the added pressure. I can't believe that OH is being so unreasonable. I'm really sorry I can't offer any advice, but thinking about you

Sounds like he doesn't want to talk about if because she knows she upsets you, agrees with you but doesn't want to admit it to himself. Sounds like he's just trying to have an easy life.

please dont ride that bike no matter how badly u need to its not safe.(bad OH for encouraging it )try not to be too sad and try and make him see how you feel and take care of yourself hope it all works out.[/quote]

I had to drive the bike today because i needed to get food. He will be back in the evening and i had to eat.

x

I'm not sure what to advise - but I really feel for you

I know it feels really stressful when your partner does not support you - I really hope the two of you make it up soon.

That sounds like a very difficult situation...I'm sorry,I don't really knowwhat to say but here's a

I truly have no suggestions either. He may feel torn in the middle between his mom and you right now and could be worried about possible problems when she is visiting.

Sometimes one has to think of what their reaction would be if they were the other person. How would you react if it were your mom coming and he said something about the rules etc.?

Just a thought.

Still, I truly feel for you and hope things improve today!

When i talk about his mom and the complaints she has, ect. I 'm always calm and never raise my voice or show any anger or grumpy face you know. Even him self knows that she upsets me many times and many time he doesn't feel comfortable after a week.

i also hope we got this sorted because she's here in 2 days