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Not long left till my scan 2moro,it sounds daft but im really afraid of my consultant! I have to see him straight after my scan & I can't sleep for worrying about it.
The thing is... everytime i see him he seems to enjoy giving me bad news - i know thats a stupid thing to say cos he's just doing his job, but he comes across as really reluctant to give me any hope & sometimes hope is all we have you know?
Let me explain - I first met this particular consultant 2 years ago before I miscarried my 1st baby & he was the person who scanned me & said matter of factly that I was going to miscarry. I mean it must be hard breaking news like this to people but i just got the impression that it was "just another day at the office" for him - whereas it was a really big deal to my husband & me but we didn't receive any compassion.
Then last time i saw him he practically told me that my baby would already be dead inside me before he'd even bothered to check the heartbeat (which was really strong & seemed to suprise him)
I just feel as though he jumped to conclusions and was far too hasty in the way he immediately chose the worst case scenario and scared the living daylights out of me!
I so hope my fluid has built back up by tomorrow so we can prove him wrong!
Everyone please wish me luck & we'll show him he shouldnt jump to conclusions!!
I could also use some courage if anyone has any spare?? I feel like he's jinxing me - like the angel of death or something
I've only just read your post. Sending you huge good luck wishes for your scan tomorrow. Really hope you get some good news and that baby is doing just fine!
xx xx
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