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Apr 12th, 2008, 13:22 PM
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| why dont u both go to the scan and tell the midwife that only one of u wants to know and then she can tell u and not him?? |
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Apr 12th, 2008, 15:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Ann-Marie  I've seen this before on telly, and they did a really good thing.
As they both thought they didn't want to know, and wouldn't be having another scan to find out.. they got the sonographer to write it down and seal it in an envelope.... So then they had the choice to know, or not to know, right up until the last minute....
Needless to say, they opened it on the journey home 
Might be worth a go | Ah, leave it to you to think of a fab idea!  |
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Apr 12th, 2008, 15:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Ann-Marie I've seen this before on telly, and they did a really good thing.
As they both thought they didn't want to know, and wouldn't be having another scan to find out.. they got the sonographer to write it down and seal it in an envelope.... So then they had the choice to know, or not to know, right up until the last minute....
Needless to say, they opened it on the journey home
Might be worth a go | thats a super idea!! |
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Apr 12th, 2008, 17:26 PM
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Apr 12th, 2008, 21:05 PM
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| Hope it works for you.
Me and the OH both want to find out. Hes the one thats doing all the reading to me and finding stuff out, he would want to know the sex right now if he could. But hes very impatient so its not a surprise. | | | | Status: Offline
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Apr 13th, 2008, 09:41 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | so i put ann-marie's idea forward and he didn't say no.....which is a start! he seems to be warming to the idea that if i want to know then we can find out but he said to stop going on about it so my mouth has been tightyly shut!!mummy_channon he wouldn't let me just find out cuz he knows i wouldnt keep it a secret so it would be both of us or not! |
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Apr 13th, 2008, 12:32 PM
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| Did you decide what to do?
I have a very stubborn hubby too so know what it's like - he desperately wants to find out and I'm quite happy to go along with that.
However, if I did have a strong opinion I definately wouldn't let him get all his own way - your view is just as important and he should respect this.
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Apr 14th, 2008, 16:53 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Ours was the other way around. I was umming and arring and he was adiment I had to know because I wouldn't shut up about it! He was right, I did need to know lol |
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