Ema

Where to start i was fine on here yesterday now im a nervous reck.

Went shopping last night about 7 got bean lots of new things me and OH were driving home( me driving) going about 30 when some f#!#er decides to pull out without looking and we have a head on smash. My whole engine in caved in to where me and my OH is sitting and air bag inflated and cant get out. Anyway i go to hospital in ambulance, Luckily i only have whiplash friction burns and internal bruising. But as i said to my nurse i dont care about me check baby.

Well takes them till 12 at night to get someone down as my whole belly swollen through bruising they couldnt even feel my uterus. To not find a heartbeat with the dopper and they then tell me no-one available to scan me till 6am this morning. So there i am sat in the A&E ward on my own as my OH is taken for a x-ray and for the police to walk in and tell me the other driver (a 17 year old lad) was f#!#ing DRUNK!!!

5 times over the limit!!!!!

So here i am sitting in agony worrying about my baby's life OH somewhere getting x-rayed all because this lad decided he needed Fags and couldnt be bothered walking the shop!!!!

Well come 6am this morning i didnt know what to do i was convinced that was it bean was gone. But when they scanned there HE appreared on the screen wriggling around and with a strong heartbeat and i found out it is a HE. Team Blue.

Anyway i got to leave the hospital today at 12pm ish and told complete bed rest for a week. Im completely black and blue. Cuts all over my face etc. My OH has a broken collar bone whiplash and broken arm. BUT all we care about is bean is ok. But as they had to point out the next 72 hours is important....so please please please keep your fingers crossed!

But as for everything else my car gone completely, this lad was arrested charged but realsed on bail?!?!?! his insurance paying for everything but thats not the point....HOW COULD THEY LET HIM GO AFTER BEING DRUNK AND NEARLY KILLING MY UNBORN CHILD?!?!?

So now i say shoot them all everyone that drinks and drives and endangers others shouldnt be aloud out. Sorry for my rant but would the police be more happy if my baby died??? then would be not be allowed to walk the street!! anyway best try get some sleep been a busy night for me and bean and of course OH.

Em

BeckyBoo

OMG HUN

What a night you had. I hope you feel better soon, you must be so sore and unsure of what to do with yourself.

I'll be sending lots of good vibes for little blue bean hun. It'll all be fine xxx

Ema

Thanks i hope so! i really dont know what to do with myself i have another scan next tuesday once swelling goes down but thats nearly a week of feeling like this. Thanks again had to get it off my chest xxx

Belle

oh my god u poor thing having to go through this!! I agree about drink drivers, GRRRRRR!!
So glad u and bean r ok and congrats on ur blue bump!! take care and put ur feet up!! xx

horrorheart13

OMG! That's so scary! And I just can't believe they would let him out on bail for what he did

So glad LO is okay though! Take it easy and relax!

BeckyBoo

Awww I know hun. Must seem daunting now. But it's just to double check him. I'm sure he is absolutely fine! I hope it passes quickly for you hun

Ema

I Know i couldnt believe it when the police came back in today to take my statement as i was in a right state last night i could speak. But i could of smacked the police man when he said that (not that its his fault)

leeanne

OMG! How horrible!

I hope you, OH and your LO will be fine!

thelilbump

NickyT75

Oh thats terrible Ema!
How can people be so irresponsible? I'm so glad you are all OK chick, take things easy and try not to worry too much (easier said than done I know)

Congratulations on joining Team Blue too! xx