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Old Apr 7th, 2008, 23:33 PM   #1
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I had no idea....


I told my best friend just before I did my pregnancy test that I thought I was pregnant. She was the second person I told the results to after I told OH that same day.

Well, seems my best friend had her own secret and I just found out. She was pregnant and lost the baby due to miscarriage last week. She would have been 12 weeks this week.

I had no idea and after all the times I talked to her about my own pregnancy. She was going to tell me soon after she reached the 12 week mark.

She seems to be taking it quite well right now and seems strong.

My best friend, oddly whose name is Lianne, had her first child when she was 17. I've brought her up a few times before. She was a fantastic young mother and I aim to have a relationship like she does with her first child.

She is now 36 and her first daughter is 19. She also has a second daughter who is 12.

She so wanted a child with a man who she loved and was in a relationship with as her first two were accidents, but who are so loved. I hope she will try again soon.

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Old Apr 7th, 2008, 23:44 PM   #2
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Love and prayers to your friend...
Atleast shes got great friends like you around to help her through this.
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Old Apr 7th, 2008, 23:46 PM   #3
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Will keep your friend in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old Apr 8th, 2008, 00:29 AM   #4
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it's very sad...but she has a wonderful friend for support i see
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Old Apr 8th, 2008, 00:41 AM   #5
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Thank you ladies.

Just after she conceived and found out she was pregnant, her father ended up in the hospital due to a massive stroke. He has a blood clot on his brain and there isn't anything they can do, he is on a feeding tube, etc. Each day he is going downhill.

For Lianne, he is the most amazing dad. And he truly is an amazing guy in every way. He's parapalegic.

http://www.sd34.bc.ca/schools/eugenereimer/start.htm (He has a school named after him.)

http://www.paralympic.ca/page?a=225&lang=en-CA

So, I've a feeling the stress she has been under with worried about her dad's health, etc. may have triggered the miscarriage.
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Old Apr 8th, 2008, 06:22 AM   #6
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sorry to hear what ur friend is going through, it must be hard for her at this time.
She has a brilliant friend by her side though so i'm sure she'll be jst fine!! xx
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Old Apr 8th, 2008, 06:39 AM   #7
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Oh no... you must be feeling a bit awkward are you? It's so hard to know what to say when a friend has lost a baby, but it's harder when you're pregnant She has a really good friend in you It sounds like she has alot going on in her life, she'll definitely benefit form having a good support network. I hope she falls again soon, you'll have to introduce her to BnB then
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Old Apr 8th, 2008, 06:44 AM   #8
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Oh,thats so sad....It must be a little weird for you too.

But she is young and will manage to get pregnant again...
Keeping her and her dad in my thoughts and prayers...
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your friend is in my thoughts, and prayers for her father xxxx
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Old Apr 8th, 2008, 08:40 AM   #10
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Aah. Big to your friend. I hope that she gets the chance to try again soon. Like you said, she's a great mum and deserves the chance to do it again. x
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