Need bedroom position advice!!!

kittenmama · Jan 26th, 2010, 16:28 PM

I hope you lovely ladies can help me, Kittenpapa and I are having some problems in the bedroom.

We're both willing, but really struggling trying to find a position where we can have bouncy fun comfortably without squashing the beachball that seems to have taken over my stomach.

We have tried the usual positions but nothing is very comfortable.

Have any of you found any fun ways around the bump-intrusion?

xxx

Sam9kids · Jan 26th, 2010, 16:36 PM

Spoons and doggy style works best for us

Or lying with your bottom towards the edge of the bed and he stands on the floor, if that makes sense lol

sambam · Jan 26th, 2010, 16:48 PM

yeah .. what sam said !!

hubby calls spoons "the lazy dog"

on top as well ? ..
although i don't feel very sexy on top at the mo when i look down and see my huge belly and leaky tits!

ttcbambino#1 · Jan 26th, 2010, 16:49 PM

I don't know why I'm blushing writing this, hehe!!!

I don't have a lovely beachball yet, but find any weight on my front uncomfortable and my stomach feels heavy during doggy. So you laying in a similar way you would for missonary, but with a pillow (or 2) supporting your bum/lower back so it's raised up slightly, and then he kneels and you can rest your legs across his thighs iykwim?? Then erm he does his thing!! A bit like the suggestion above, but my hubby prefers not to stand!!

jadesh101 · Jan 26th, 2010, 16:51 PM

ermm one we did try was him lying down and me sat on him but facing the other way ( my bum facing his head) lol if the doesn't work then stand up near your drawers or bed and lean over a little onto drawers or bed and let him take you from behind

Truman · Jan 26th, 2010, 16:58 PM

This is just the best thread, I was in a foul mood 5 mins ago and just found myself laughing out loud. Thank you very much ladies.

Whilst my bump isn't that big yet I still find myself putting far too much thought into our positions (kinda spoils the moment) now I have a couple of new ones to try lol!!!!

Scampie · Jan 26th, 2010, 17:07 PM

Im still loling at sambams huge belly and leaky tits! Not at them, after all we all have them

Just the way u said it, classic :P

Midlands_moth · Jan 26th, 2010, 17:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sam9kids

Spoons and doggy style works best for us

Or lying with your bottom towards the edge of the bed and he stands on the floor, if that makes sense lol

i've found this works as well, we tried him on top and turn to the side, when i get on top he gets flop, sorry for the graphics.

last week i could not get in the mood until we tried me on the edge of the bed that really did the trick

lnic1970 · Jan 26th, 2010, 17:16 PM

im feeling like a baby whale at the mo so am willing to try above suggestions - with the lights off tho lol

great thread - can I just ask, is it safe to still be having "fairly vigorous" jiggyjiggy or should we really be slowing things down a little? OH does like to "go for it" so to speak!!

Smiley Lou · Jan 26th, 2010, 17:16 PM

still off sex, but me on top or spoons seems to work when we do give it a go. Thanks for the other tips thou ladies, maybe these will help get my drive back !!!

Jan 26th, 2010, 16:28 PM	#1
kittenmama Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Ripley, Derbyshire Posts: 69	Need bedroom position advice!!! I hope you lovely ladies can help me, Kittenpapa and I are having some problems in the bedroom. We're both willing, but really struggling trying to find a position where we can have bouncy fun comfortably without squashing the beachball that seems to have taken over my stomach. We have tried the usual positions but nothing is very comfortable. Have any of you found any fun ways around the bump-intrusion? xxx

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Sam9kids Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Cheshire, UK Posts: 4,928	Spoons and doggy style works best for us Or lying with your bottom towards the edge of the bed and he stands on the floor, if that makes sense lol

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Jan 26th, 2010, 16:48 PM	#3
sambam Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Wishaw, Scotland Posts: 1,228	yeah .. what sam said !! hubby calls spoons "the lazy dog" on top as well ? .. although i don't feel very sexy on top at the mo when i look down and see my huge belly and leaky tits!

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Jan 26th, 2010, 16:49 PM	#4
ttcbambino#1 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: kent Posts: 696	I don't know why I'm blushing writing this, hehe!!! I don't have a lovely beachball yet, but find any weight on my front uncomfortable and my stomach feels heavy during doggy. So you laying in a similar way you would for missonary, but with a pillow (or 2) supporting your bum/lower back so it's raised up slightly, and then he kneels and you can rest your legs across his thighs iykwim?? Then erm he does his thing!! A bit like the suggestion above, but my hubby prefers not to stand!!

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Jan 26th, 2010, 16:51 PM	#5
jadesh101 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Wales Posts: 2,254	ermm one we did try was him lying down and me sat on him but facing the other way ( my bum facing his head) lol if the doesn't work then stand up near your drawers or bed and lean over a little onto drawers or bed and let him take you from behind

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Jan 26th, 2010, 16:58 PM	#6
Truman Other Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: WestYorkshire Posts: 645	This is just the best thread, I was in a foul mood 5 mins ago and just found myself laughing out loud. Thank you very much ladies. Whilst my bump isn't that big yet I still find myself putting far too much thought into our positions (kinda spoils the moment) now I have a couple of new ones to try lol!!!!

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Jan 26th, 2010, 17:07 PM	#7
Scampie Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 4,866	Im still loling at sambams huge belly and leaky tits! Not at them, after all we all have them Just the way u said it, classic :P

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Jan 26th, 2010, 17:16 PM	#9
lnic1970 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: The Wee Toon, West of Scotland Posts: 660	im feeling like a baby whale at the mo so am willing to try above suggestions - with the lights off tho lol great thread - can I just ask, is it safe to still be having "fairly vigorous" jiggyjiggy or should we really be slowing things down a little? OH does like to "go for it" so to speak!!

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Jan 26th, 2010, 17:16 PM	#10
Smiley Lou Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 768	still off sex, but me on top or spoons seems to work when we do give it a go. Thanks for the other tips thou ladies, maybe these will help get my drive back !!!

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