cetara

my parents have told me that they will not come out to dinner with us to let everyone what the sex of the baby. this is baby number 4 and we have done this with every baby. they told me that they were disappointed in me that i was talking to my brothers ex-wife and they were just really upset. i was like why? she was always a good friend to me. she was more of a sister to me then my brother was a brother. he now has a girlfriend and everyone in my family wahts us to be like the best of friends. i just don't know what to do. i feel like i want to is crawl i a hole and stay there forever.

leeanne

Some people just cannot get past negatives, or can't forgive easily. At the same time, I see what your parents are doing...they are being parents and are supporting their son. Our time will come.

Obviously it is a very sensitive issue for them and I truly don't know what to advise. Sending you hugs!

nikky0907

Oh,I'm sorry.I don't think they should ditch your dinner just out of spite.
And they shouldn't ask of you to stop being friends with her just because she isn't family anymore...

But they just want your brother to be happy.I don't want to say just talk to them,I guess they will get more comfortable with it after some time...