Pregnancy - Second Trimester

vickilouise · Mar 30th, 2008, 01:43 AM

Could I be charged and convicted???? or could I plead insanity due to hormones?!

I am seriously considering maiming my OH or ending it for him.
He's the most insensitive and arrogant ******* I know at this moment in time. He called me lazy... yes lazy because I couldnt face getting out of bed this morning due to my bad hips i was in agony just moving my leg never mind going on the krypton factor to get out of bed.
earlier on about 6am i woke up with an urgent need for the loo, so i tried to climb over what seemed like mt everest lying next to me but i collapsed back down on the bed... by now bursting for a pee
so i tapped OH on the shoulder to get him to shift and he had a fit on me all fs and jeffs. fuckin arsehole
he said today I didnt think the pain was that bad for you...
Im sure he lives on a different planet, i get out of the car slower and making more oooohhhs and ahhhhhhs than my nan!!!!
so anyway after i freaked at him for calling me lazy i stuffed my things into my bag and told him to take me home.
arguing all the way bk to mine. he thinks its a big joke!!!!
then i hear hes out drinking (so much for being skint)

well at this minute in time hes had his dear john via email (ive dumped him) for being an insensitive *******!!!!
just thought id vent and off load on all of you poor buggers that happen to read this.

toriaaaaTRASH · Mar 30th, 2008, 01:46 AM

When my OH first found out I was pregnant, he knew because we had been together so long that I was against abortion, he threatened to cut it out of me. He can be quite nasty when he's scared/upset.

Anyway, if you get away with it write me a letter so I can give it a go.

vickilouise · Mar 30th, 2008, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH

When my OH first found out I was pregnant, he knew because we had been together so long that I was against abortion, he threatened to cut it out of me. He can be quite nasty when he's scared/upset.

Anyway, if you get away with it write me a letter so I can give it a go.

will do
haha
men eh, we wouldnt be in this state if it wern't for them !!!

toriaaaaTRASH · Mar 30th, 2008, 01:51 AM

Hmm, I know he loves me and her. I never really believed that "love isn't enough." I'm starting to though.. I have needs (not sexual ones lol) and he just doesn't seem to be helping them right now. I asked him to understand, he couldn't. So I asked him to pretend to understand, he didn't want to do that either. So I told him I can't do it anymore. I hope it's hormones and we're alright when the baby is here. I guess I'll find out soon.

Your OH seems as insensitive as mine. Even now I get called lazy. Miffed. If he was pregnant he wouldn't be Mr.Happy.

tb42 · Mar 30th, 2008, 01:52 AM

So sorry to hear you have to go through this during your pregnancy ( or anytime ). I hope you find a good solution for you and the little one.

charlottecco2 · Mar 30th, 2008, 02:45 AM

grrrrrr MEN, if i get called lazy one more bloody time i will scream. He told me off because i stayed up till 4 am the other day and the didn't get out of bed till 10am. Its not my bloody fault baby wanted to kick my insides non stop so that i couldn't sleep.
I have been called crazy and psychotic, it really annoys me! yes we may be hormonal, but i'm not a hypochondriac, if i say i'm in pain......i'm in pain!!

xx

horrorheart13 · Mar 30th, 2008, 03:55 AM

Uugggh

I completely know what you mean! I got called lazy not more than 2 minutes ago because I don't want to go play poker. MEN. I can't believe how many of us have such unsupportive selfish guys.