cparks1

I was having a good day (even though I don't feel all that great) until I saw the co-worker that knows it all. First thing out of her mouth was "My, your belly just popped out this weekend". Of course, I just had to open my mouth and say I didn't feel good so she proceeded to know what was wrong with me (how the F*** does she know)???? Then we got to talking about excercise and she was like "just go outside and take a walk" this was after I told her that I have a treadmill at home that I'd rather walk on. I also proceeded to tell her that I'm ready for this pregnancy to be over with (Why, I don't know ), then she was like "Oh why??? Being pregnant was the best time in my life" I just told her that it's hard to move around anymore and I'm tired of being big and I'm ready to go back to working out the way I used to. She said, you can still be mobile you just have to learn to bend in other directions so I just said maybe you liked it, but I don't. Mind you, this is a big girl and her hand rest is her 2nd spare tire around her waist and she is LAZY......... and she is the biggest gossip queen and know it all that you just want to smack). She always makes a comment about my pregnancy every time she sees me, I'm just so freaking tired of it. I just want to tell her to SHUT THE F*** UP!!!!!!

I apologize for the rant first thing Monday morning , but why do people think it's okay to be all up in your business and try to tell you how to live your life??? I just don't understand that. People are driving me insane with this pregnancy, why can't they just let me be pregnant and just leave me alone. I am so ready for maternity leave so I can get far away from this place and I am so ready for a margarita it isn't even funny. Anyways, if you read this post all the way through, I thank you. I'm sure a lot of you can relate to this. Agan, I'm sorry for the rant and for such a long post.

elles28

Biting your tongue is the only possible way to get through a pregnancy & keep your sanity!! Hope the rest of your day is better

toriaaaaTRASH

Ahh!! What is it with people?! Tell her she's the one that needs to take a walk.

leeanne

I find though that the less information you give people, the less they are inclined to comment. Perhaps next time cut the conversation short and change the subject.

cparks1

You're right, I should have known better. I try to keep my mouth shut around her because she is non stop talking. I did however, get frustrated and just walked away while she was still talking. I later went back to get my reports from her and she didn't say anything else (like she knew she was annoying me). I hope she got the hint.

debralouise

There is always someone like that!!!!

How annoying, I find that I just say "well you can't compare 2 pregnancies, everyone is different" They can't comment after that - otherwise just tell them you're hormonal (I find that works too!) hee hee xx xx

cparks1

Thanks everyone, I just had to get all that off my chest. I'd have to say, people like her is my biggest complaint right now. I just don't have the patience and I want to be "normal again". I'm glad I have you all to turn to because you know where I am coming from. Thanks for the support.

Vickie

People always stick their noses where they aren't wanted don't they?

vickilouise

oh i hate it, i am so happy i got signed off from work.
friggin know it alls all over my workplace, they only ask questions so that theres a bit of gossip later on.
when a colleague heard i was pregnant she rushed over and said "are you keeping it?!" i swear i near cracked her there and then.
end of the day you get arseholes everywhere, either avade the subject or ask what its got to do with them.

charliesam

i thought that by not talking to people about my pregnancy would stop them all snooping - but all i got then was 'oh you do seem very happy about it' i thought omg wot, just because im not spillin my heart out to you!!!!