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Mar 23rd, 2008, 12:26 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Boy, girl or surprise!!!!!!
I just wondered how many of you are not wanting to know the sex of your baby? Or have waited till dilivery to find out in the past?
Basically i want to know my LO sex when i have my 20wk scan on 16.04.08 but my partner wants it to be kept a surprise and my mum is with him on this. Plus my niece was a surprise and her mum said it was really special, not knowing untill she arrived.
So now i feel all guilty and selfish as my partner said we can find out if thats what i want. But half of me wants to know and half of me doesnt.
What do you think we should do? any advice on surprises? |
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 12:30 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i dont know what im having i cant wait for the suprise i think its fun guessing what your having and i also think it will be nice for friends and family when you phone to tell them |
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 12:33 PM
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Is this your first? |
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 12:41 PM
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 12:49 PM
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 12:50 PM
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 13:41 PM
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| didnt think they could tell till 18 weeks at least i had suprise with my first found out with my second but went back to a suprise with my 3rd its so much nicer to have the suprise it beats knowing anyday. |
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 13:52 PM
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| We are going for a surprise as its our first. We agreed this when we were ttc, but now I sort of want to know. For me it would be a bit like opening my Christmas present early - very exciting at the time, but on Christmas day there's nothing to unwrap!
Am secretly hoping he/she will flash us their 'bits' at the 20 week scan on 9th april  |
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 13:59 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I have two boys.....
First was a surprise... and the second we knew.....
This time round.... we wanted to know, as we weren't actually planning to have anymore, and had gotten rid of everything... so I wanted to get the right stuff from scratch... not greens and yellows....
I went to a private clinic with a top sonographer who can tell at 12 weeks. Alot of private clinics can tell from 12 weeks now. They have more powerful equipment |
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Mar 23rd, 2008, 14:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Ann-Marie  I already found out the sex at my 12 week scan | They wouldn't tell me ann-marie, she said she didn't find it that accurate  i just wanna know!!!!!!
I wanna see the 1 who scanned u! |
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