tinytoes

keep having dreams where my DB is either leaving me or cheating on me.
He's been absolutely wonderful during my pregnancy - perfect! I know he's not going anywhere...but still the dreams. I'm not even feeling particulalry needy when i'm awake!!
I was so glad to wake up this morn and realize it was all a dream!
Poor baby getting all these stressy hormones!

Gabi

That's actually a completely normal pregnancy dream. I read an article about them a while ago. One of the most common pregnancy dreams is the one where the husband/boyfriend/fiance/partner walks out on you or leaves you for another woman.

You can have a laugh at them really. Right them down too if you want. I haven't had any dreams where hubby leaves me yet. I've been having strange baby dreams though.... wierd.

leeanne

Aww, I detest dreams like that and I get them on occasion when I am not pregnant. Those dreams give you this blah feeling But it's also so nice to wake up and realize it wasn't reality!

charlottecco2

i keep having these dreams all the time, and they are really upsetting me because i wake up feeling awful after them and then i sometimes forget what is a dream and what is real life. aggggghhhh god dam hormones, xx

Jules

I wonder if its because were getting fatter

I mean, i am not bothered about putting weight on during pregnancy, its all for the baby and i will get it off afterwards but i must admit, i miss getting into my skimpy undies and tight jeans!

charlottecco2

ditto xx

tinytoes

well i've nopt advanced to teh big knickers yet so i'll assume it's just some weird deep down insecurity. He shouted "i'm outahere bitch"..hhehehe i have to laugh now, but in my sleep I was devestated!!! PLUS he left me on a busy round-about of all places..

The otherweek in a dream he was going to a works do and was choosing a call girl out of a catalogue(?!), and it even turned out that the "do" was being organized by an ex of his ...
i was ok about it till i realized the girls in the catalogue were stunners.

I wake up and give him a big bear hug!!

blasted dreams.

Mangomoo

Before I met my fantastic other half I had a boyfriend who was tragically killed on his motorbike. That was about 5 years ago and whilst I am over the grief of the accident I still think of him and I am sad that he is not here. Time is a great healer (you never believe that when you are told that at the time though!)

I dreamt that he had come back and he only had a week left to try and get me to come with him, but I couldn't bring myself to tell him that I have a new partner who I am really happy with and we have a baby on the way. Then my sister was told that she only had a week left to live and started seeing my old boyfriend!

How bizare is my head!! I think I can work it out though, I'm obiously feeling subconsiously guilty/sad about my life starting new adventures that unfortunatley he will never be able to experience.

I'm having lots of other wierd dreams as well, but I've forgotten them, only remember that one as it was last night.

xx

Vickie

I've had these dreams too!! I wake up in a bad mood towards DH and he always wonder what he's done wrong!

cparks1

I've been having the opposite dreams. I keep having reoccuring dreams that I am cheating on my hubby with a guy I work with. I hardly ever see the guy I work with because he is a field tech and I don't understand why I am having dreams about him. I do think he's cute, but I wouldn't do anything of the sort to hurt my marriage. It's weird to me and the dreams seem so real, I wake up in a panic wondering if it really happened cause in some of the dreams either my husband is in the dream or his cousins catch me in the act. How weird is that??? Then, I ran into my exes parents (who I was pretty close to), found out his mom had a stroke and as soon as they told me that my heart sank. I have had a couple of dreams about my ex since then.

I just think our pregnancy hormones are wacko right now and it's messing with our heads. My husband has been very great to me during this pregnancy so I don't understand why I'm having such racey dreams.