my pregnancy was anything but normal. however it was a fantastic surprise. My boyfriend now and i have known eachother for 10 yrs. Basically, even when I was dating my bf of 7 yrs, there was this thing between us both, but very obvious "bad timing", or more of a "its not meant to be" because we were dating other people for a long time. And when my ex of 7 yrs and I broke up, he was dating someone, then when they broke up - I was dating someone, so it just never worked out. I went to him last October, when I was single to tell him that I loved him, and it made sense that I was always in relationship limbo, because I wasnt dating him. But even that didnt work out, because he was dating a girl, they signed a lease together and he didnt want to shake things up. Even though he actually ended up telling her about me, and us, and well nothing happened.
But this Sept we saw eachother and were both basically single (he had ended things with his ex) and this happened!
THIS is our story, and WE know it, so when i got pregnant is was wonderful - it was a SIGN that we need to be together, and that was it.
so i told my mom basically at the time that i was 100% pregnant (i was officially 3 weeks, and told her the day i got the first + test) and she immediately told me i should have an abortion. she didnt know and didnt care to know our story, she didnt care about the baby to be, and just was decided that III should have an abortion.
so obviously i stopped talking to her, kept the baby LIKE I WAS GOING TO ALL ALONG, and im incredibly happy.
however, now she is extremely, 'OMG IM SO EXCITED" "IM GOING TO BE A NANA!" "I CANT WAIT TO BE A NANA, YOU'RE GOING TO BE A MOM!"
i just CANNOT help but feel like its fake, and shes being too extreme, and i just really dont feel its sincere. my mom has since told the entire world she is going to be a 'nana' (not grandma) - but i just cant seem to wrap my head around it to accept that shes maybe truly excited.
all i feel in my heart is, she told me to abort my baby....
advice?
also, my mom is 110% the definition OF a drama queen, and usually makes things about her, or cries about it not being about her. im just having a really tough time accepting this...

