This doesn't look like his baby at all. Looks like somebody is sharing something/complaining about something. Regardless, why don't you ask him. At this point the only thing you're going to do would be driving yourself crazy.

*Next time it would be best to leave his phone alone to not get the txt/voicemails out of context. If he wants to tell you something, he will. If he doesn't, going through his phone would only make him defensive. Lots of people ruined their relationship by being way too suspicious and making their partners lie. Remember that guys psychology is completely different, they are hunters, they need to pursue you not the other way around. At all times keep your cool, make him wonder instead of holding him by a short leash and going through his phone. Good luck xxx

Id have done exactly the same and gone through his phone, i think its only natural from that first call when you became suspicious. Be upfront and front him out, if you know him you will know by his reaction whether he's lying or not. I hope for your sake its all innocent. Let us know hun.

i think you should confront him, you have a right too look through his phone.. especially when he gets a call that you might think is suspicious.
Also, if he doesn't want you going through his phone, then that suggests he has something to hide.

and as 'MUMOF5' says.. i hope it all turns out ok! xxx

Hope it all works out xx

How's it gone?

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hope its all going ok and you got the answers you wanted ((hugs)) xx

Hi hun,
right am i getting the completley wrong end of the stick, but is this woman trying to say that your OH is the father of her baby?!!? and becuase he ignored her she will tell the baby that he has died, or maybe becuase he doesnt want to know shes going to tell the baby he's dead?
and with regards to confronting him, i think the only way you can find out what is actually going on is by confronting him. everytime i go through my OH's phone and find somethin which is quite often i ALWAYS confront him and justify it by saying that i had a funny feeling and that i was obviously right to! but if your OH has a perfectly good explanation for all of this then all you can do is apologise and say you'll never do it again. you'll go mad if you dont find out what hes up to or what this woman is going on about. i also thought that Andy could have been the womans parner (again sorry if ive got the complete wrong end of the stick!) you dont need to be stressed whilst pregnant as you have enough stress already. keep us posted hun! xx

how did it go?

Just tell him you felt weird like something was wrong and that's why you looked. If he gets mad and defensive obviously he has something to hide. Good luck. xx

good luck hun, awkward situation.