Really uoset, can someone give me some honest advice? - Page 2

emma77 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:22 AM

This doesn't sound good but just be honest and say that text a few weeks ago worried you and that is why you looked. Be reasonable in your approach in case it is nothing and you need him to forgive you for checking.

Have you called him from your phone or from his phone, just out of interest? If it is from his and it wasn't answered, he will find out about you trying the number so its best to approach him before he realises and catch him off guard.

Good luck!

RainbowDrop_x · Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:23 AM

Get rid of him. If his texting other women behind your back he obviously doesn't give a shit. His not worth the hassle. An even if you ask about it his gonna lie.. Sorry if that sound's really harsh hunny but you asked for honest!! Hope everything works out for you xx

Rozie_1985 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:32 AM

Before you thnk the worst sit down and talk to him, you know your OH therefore will know if his lying! Hope it sorts out, thinking of you xxx

BlondieNBump · Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:38 AM

Thanks so much girlies, i think when he gets back from footy i am gona tell him i only looked to see if that girl text him again and when i see them texts i read them. I think i deserve to know becasue i woud never do anything to hurt him so if he is going to do something while i am pregnant god knows what he can do!! Thanks girlies dont know what i would do without yas love yas xxx

ellahstruts · Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:55 AM

sweety i had the same thing when i was pregnant with our ast baby, i had to be honest and tell him that i went through his phone, its better than living with this hell in your mind thinking all sorts of things, f ing men really get to me,they just dont know what we go through innocent or not this is horrible for you. my oh swore on our baby that he was not doing anything, i decided to let the past be past and believed him then our baby died, i still tihnk of it now, but i have to let it pass or it would tear me up and things have really changed...i guess what i am saying is clear the matter up before it eats you up sweety xx

bubble1990 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 07:35 AM

i went to throught somehitng similar with my ex and it turned out he was seeing this other women so to be on the safe side hun i would be honest with him tell him u went throght his phone and u found those txts if he gets angry or evasive u will no the truth but if he tells u the truth (u should no his lying face lol) then just leave it and when u phone this number put it on private coz if he is be a naughty boy then he could have given her ur number and said ignore this if she phones thats what my ex did if u need any thing else hun were all here and ur not alone

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BlondieNBump · Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:35 AM

Thanks so much girls am gona ask him when he gets in am so scared I feel so sick

should b in any min x x x x

BlondieNBump · Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:40 AM

I keep tryin to ring that number with 141 in front m it's just keeps going to orange voice mail saying the person u have called is not avalible at the moment please leave a message. Does that mean her phone is turned off? Xxx

ellahstruts · Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:58 AM

yes its off hun x see what he says first before you call her in my honest opinion x let us know, we are all here for you

CocoaOne · Nov 22nd, 2009, 09:36 AM

I think it sounds like he's just being there as a shoulder for this girl to cry on. Maybe he didn't want you to be suspicious and that's why he's not been upfront? Men's logic never ceases to amaze me! Good luck hun x x

Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:22 AM	#11
emma77 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Bristol, UK Posts: 325	This doesn't sound good but just be honest and say that text a few weeks ago worried you and that is why you looked. Be reasonable in your approach in case it is nothing and you need him to forgive you for checking. Have you called him from your phone or from his phone, just out of interest? If it is from his and it wasn't answered, he will find out about you trying the number so its best to approach him before he realises and catch him off guard. Good luck!

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:23 AM	#12
RainbowDrop_x Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 7,727	Get rid of him. If his texting other women behind your back he obviously doesn't give a shit. His not worth the hassle. An even if you ask about it his gonna lie.. Sorry if that sound's really harsh hunny but you asked for honest!! Hope everything works out for you xx

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:32 AM	#13
Rozie_1985 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Hertfordshire Posts: 2,546	Before you thnk the worst sit down and talk to him, you know your OH therefore will know if his lying! Hope it sorts out, thinking of you xxx

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:38 AM	#14
BlondieNBump Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 556	Thanks so much girlies, i think when he gets back from footy i am gona tell him i only looked to see if that girl text him again and when i see them texts i read them. I think i deserve to know becasue i woud never do anything to hurt him so if he is going to do something while i am pregnant god knows what he can do!! Thanks girlies dont know what i would do without yas love yas xxx

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:55 AM	#15
ellahstruts Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: leicester Posts: 564	sweety i had the same thing when i was pregnant with our ast baby, i had to be honest and tell him that i went through his phone, its better than living with this hell in your mind thinking all sorts of things, f ing men really get to me,they just dont know what we go through innocent or not this is horrible for you. my oh swore on our baby that he was not doing anything, i decided to let the past be past and believed him then our baby died, i still tihnk of it now, but i have to let it pass or it would tear me up and things have really changed...i guess what i am saying is clear the matter up before it eats you up sweety xx

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 07:35 AM	#16
bubble1990 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: southend on sea essex Posts: 289	i went to throught somehitng similar with my ex and it turned out he was seeing this other women so to be on the safe side hun i would be honest with him tell him u went throght his phone and u found those txts if he gets angry or evasive u will no the truth but if he tells u the truth (u should no his lying face lol) then just leave it and when u phone this number put it on private coz if he is be a naughty boy then he could have given her ur number and said ignore this if she phones thats what my ex did if u need any thing else hun were all here and ur not alone xx : :

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:35 AM	#17
BlondieNBump Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 556	Thanks so much girls am gona ask him when he gets in am so scared I feel so sick should b in any min x x x x

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:40 AM	#18
BlondieNBump Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 556	I keep tryin to ring that number with 141 in front m it's just keeps going to orange voice mail saying the person u have called is not avalible at the moment please leave a message. Does that mean her phone is turned off? Xxx

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:58 AM	#19
ellahstruts Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: leicester Posts: 564	yes its off hun x see what he says first before you call her in my honest opinion x let us know, we are all here for you

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 09:36 AM	#20
CocoaOne Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 4,261	I think it sounds like he's just being there as a shoulder for this girl to cry on. Maybe he didn't want you to be suspicious and that's why he's not been upfront? Men's logic never ceases to amaze me! Good luck hun x x

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